Let's make it easy for you. Strap-Ons. They've been around for centuries but in the late 80's, an enterprising entrepreneur, Cathie, of SF's late, great, kink shop, Stormy Leather, created what's thought of as the original line of lesbian friendly, easy to use harnesses for girl-to-girl realistic fucking. Since selling her inventions decades ago, there has been an explosion of harnesses for every BODY and every person (pssst. They're not just for girls anymore but that's another post).

So today, we're looking at the simple, all-in-one "kit" from Nasstoys. It has a realistic, TPE (thermoplastic elastomer for you science geeks out there) dildo, in tan color (I HATE when they use the word "flesh" to describe a color because we know "flesh" is a rainbow of colors), that has a suction cup base which can be used by itself or in the easy to use harness. The harness is an inexpensive, faux leather and neoprene harness with nylon straps to tug on for a tight fit. Best part is that it comes with two different sized rings to accommodate just about any size dildo. Simply snap in the correct sized ring, slip in the rubber dick, pull in the straps, and voila! Fun fucking with a harness! This is a pretty standard starter version... you can always upgrade to a fancier harness and more expensive dildo but this is an easy way to see if you and your partner like dildo harness fucking.

PS - I can't stand the word DONG, either... I mean, when was the last time you heard "fuck me with that DONG"?? And a DONG is Vietnamese currency. No shit.

There will be a LOT more posts about strap ons, harnesses, dildos, fucking and the good stuff. Stay tuned for more!