In an eye-opening episode of Chat With Elaina St James, Elaina delves into her journey of hiring adult male talent for her independent productions and sheds light on the often misunderstood world of the adult industry.

Elaina reveals the surprising truths and hidden challenges faced by aspiring male performers. She shares invaluable advice on breaking into the business, emphasizing the critical attributes of physical fitness and professionalism.

Elaina St James, known as ‘That Mom,” is a Social Media Influencer, Podcaster, Author of How To Date Hot Older Women, and Designer of merchandise promoting Age Positivity.

Elaina highlights the essential steps for newcomers, stressing the importance of regular testing and being in close proximity to filming locations. She candidly discusses the unique challenges male performers face, such as intense competition, jealousy, and societal stigma. “You don’t have to be handsome necessarily. But you must be fit, reliable, and safe,” Elaina notes, underlining the core qualities required for success.

The conversation also touches on the broader realities of the industry, including the predominance of a male audience and the significant presence of a gay male fan base for male performers. Elaina provides a realistic perspective on the financial and personal aspects of the profession, acknowledging that the industry is less glamorous and financially rewarding for men compared to women.

Listeners will gain a deep understanding of the personal and professional consequences that come with a career in adult entertainment, from strained relationships to limited job opportunities outside the industry. Elaina’s insights offer a comprehensive look at what it takes to thrive as a male performer and navigate the complexities of the adult entertainment world.

Tune in to this revealing episode for an honest discussion on becoming an adult actor and the nuanced realities of the industry. Available to watch on Elaina’s YouTube Channel, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere you listen to your podcasts.

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