One in Three Adults Would Sign a ‘Sex NDA’ to Keep Their Kinks Private

Survey Shows Growing Interest in 'Sex NDA' to Keep Bedroom Secrets Confidential

Did you know we live in a world where most people are kinky? According to a New York Post article, 95% of them, according to a new survey on sex NDAs. This could make you think everyone would be openly discussing their desires, but reality shows otherwise. More than 60% of adults admit they are hesitant to share their sexual preferences with their partners, fearing judgment or rejection.

Not only are many people afraid to spill their secrets, but a surprising 37% would sign a “sex NDA” to make sure their deepest desires stay confidential. That statistic comes from a recent survey conducted by dating app Flure, which quizzed 2,000 adults on their sex lives, revealing that while people may have adventurous desires, they’re more reserved in expressing them.

Kinks may be a natural part of human sexuality, but most people worry about the impact of disclosure. This has led some to consider taking legal precautions to ensure their private lives remain private.

5 Fun Facts About Kinks:

• A whopping 95% of adults admit to having some kind of kink, according to recent surveys—so if you're into something a bit out of the ordinary, you're in good company.
• Half of the people surveyed said they get turned on by the idea of public sex. Apparently, the thrill of potentially getting caught works wonders for the imagination.
• Almost 50% of respondents said they’ve fantasized about a threesome. Clearly, the "more the merrier" mentality extends beyond social gatherings.
• One in seven adults has a foot fetish. So, if you’ve noticed extra attention to your pedicure, it might not be all about hygiene awareness!
• 14% of those surveyed are at least interested in the cuckolding dynamic, proving that even relationship power dynamics can get a bit – let’s say – unconventional.

As the conversation around intimacy shifts, the idea of a sex NDA is gaining momentum. Experts warn, though, that keeping these desires locked away could weaken trust and satisfaction over time. It turns out that in the pursuit of privacy, many may be building barriers in their relationships.

If you're thinking of drafting your own agreement before sharing your secret fantasies, it's likely worth more than a signature—why not try having the conversation openly instead? Because, as survey after survey shows, the longer we suppress, the further we drift. And no contract can paper over that gap.

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