Here Are The Top 5 Sex Positions That Women Are Dying To Try And That Will Help You Last Longer!
Dear reader, the top 5 sex positions I'm going to share with you will not only impress and please your partner but they are also designed to help you last longer. It’s a bit of a "what came first, the chicken or the egg" situation… You last longer, and she’s more impressed and satisfied. Win-win! Knowing these positions can increase your confidence, which is one of the most potent turn-ons for everyone.
The determining factors in whether a position will help you last longer are depth and thrust. To maintain control, you want positions that allow for shallow penetration. This is because deep thrusts and penetration are very pleasurable and won’t help control your orgasm. You also want to use sex positions that encourage slow and steady sex over fast pounding. If this is particularly difficult for you, check out my post on foreplay for the impatient. Most women need time and the right vibe to get wet and ready for penetration. This also means you must be able to smoothly transition between positions that are easy to get into and maintain.
I know that you probably watch adult content, feel inspired, and think that those sex positions are what women are dying to try. But you’re mistaken. Adult content is made by adult ACTORS, and the positions they use are meant to look better than they feel. Always rely on proper sex education if you want to be a better lover.
So, here are the top 5 sex positions that women are dying to try and that can help you last longer:
#1 Cowgirl:
This position is comfortable and restricts your ability to thrust too quickly. The receiving partner is on top and sets the pace, allowing for smooth and slow sex. This position also involves deep grinding and clitoral stimulation, making it a fan favorite. So, while you enjoy the view, remember that this is one ride that's bound to be unforgettable.
#2 Spooning:
This sex position is exceedingly comfortable, with you lying behind your partner who is lying in front. The positioning naturally limits thrusts to short strokes. Additionally, you can reach around her and stimulate her clitoris for extra pleasure. This position can turn lazy mornings into memorable ones.
#3 Side by Side:
Similar to spooning but face-to-face, this position allows for short, controlled thrusts and adds an element of intimacy since you can establish eye contact and share kisses. Your partner can lift and wrap a leg around your hip, giving you optimal access. This position might just redefine the phrase "getting close."
#4 Lazy Dog:
The traditional doggy-style position should be saved for the grand finale when deep, hard thrusts are desired to climax. The lazy dog, however, involves both partners lying down with you on top of her, much like missionary, except she is face down. This variation offers more control over thrusting and can still pack quite an impact.
#5 Sitting on a Chair:
In this position, have your partner stand with her back facing you before she sits on your lap for penetration. This positioning controls depth and speed while allowing your partner to grind against your hips. Both of you can stimulate her clitoris for an added touch.
Although I’ve focused on a hetero approach to these positions, they aren’t limited to vaginal-penile interactions. By using toys and a little creativity, any combination of genders and a number of partners can benefit from these positions that allow for longer-lasting sex.
Now that you’ve armed yourself with knowledge about these fantastic five positions, remember that the key to great sex is communication and mutual pleasure. Don’t rush, take your time, and most importantly, enjoy the journey as much as the destination. Experiment with these positions and discover which ones work best for you and your partner, and always keep the aim to please.