Men's nipples... men have them but for what reason? I mean, they don't have to nurse babies or anything like that yet can provide some juicy pleasure during sex play, no matter who you're playing with. Even yourself.
Why is it that during straight sex sessions, guys tend to think that nipple play and pleasure is only relegated to the gay men's community? Kind of like the same thinking around anal penetration: "I won't do that because it might mean I'm gay if I like it." I have heard that time and time again and any guy who finally realizes they enjoy it wonder what took them so long to overcome that stigma. In my book, pleasure is pleasure, no matter who loves it.
But back to nipples. I rarely encounter a guy who asks for nipple play but then when I kind of do my sneaky test to check their response to my nipple investigation, their quiet responses let me know to whether to continue my exploratory gestures. Let me elaborate and share my sneaky test with you.
What I'll do is start with a lovely pectoral massage. Sounds nice, doesn't it? Now, this can also be applied to women's breasts, too. I mean, we're talking breasts here, no matter who owns them. Women have pecs, too: those muscles buried under the skin that attach to our armpits. Massaging that muscle group feels great!
Now for guys, since there isn't as much breast tissue, I start by simply massaging the chest muscles. While my palms are mushing around, I start to circle the nipples between my thumb and index finger - you know that area where you can create a nice, little pinch. Yeah, there. I start to gently finish my pec massage in circles that wind up with the nipple in between my finger and thumb and then I start to tighten up the subtle grip around their nip. It's at this point, guys will start to moan with pleasure or wince with pain, BOTH of which can give me great pleasure depending what's on the menu at the time.
Generally vanilla sex speaking, most of the guys I play with end up liking it! I also notice them squeezing their nipples while I suck them off, which is obviously a dead giveaway that they REALLY like it - but never asked for it. A blowjob, now that's another matter...
So it really has nothing to do with gender preference, sex preference, identity, or anything. If it feels good, do it.
And piercing those nipples is another post, for sure... stay tuned for more....