The Holiday Romance How To Guide For Women – Have A Fling!

By Coleen Singer at Sssh.com Porn For Women

If you’re anything like me, then the holidays are also a great time to have a juicy holiday romance. A fling. An affair. Nothing boosts the self up like a quick romantic connection and dirty, dirty sex in places you know you shouldn’t. Ah yes, just the thought of it is delicious. But then again, too many of us flounder when it comes to having a holiday romance like a pro. Fear not ladies, here’s a quick guide on how to have a holiday romance:

Come prepared

Let’s not be coy here. Holidays are the best time for nookie and unless you’re with someone (and already getting nookie), you know you want some sexy time with a hot, shirtless man with muscles. So get that wax (if that’s your thing), do your nails (pointed, so you can leave him a reminder when you gently scratch his back), and bring condoms! None of that, “Oh, I just want to relax and unwind…” I call bull on all pretense of wanting to relax. Having sex is uber relaxing! So there!

Go for gold

Sure in regular life you would never go for that uber charming, hot, always shirtless, glistening surf instructor; the stuffy lawyer type is more your speed. But this isn’t regular life, this is a holiday, so go for the impossible girl! Flirt with that hunk you wouldn’t normally talk to. Make out with the shy waiter after hours at the bar. Your chances are only limited by your own self worth, so do as Stella did and get your groove back by going for gold.

Don’t expect nothing

This is an important bit of how-to. Holiday flings are a whirlwind by nature, you get all wrapped up in each other, your defences are down, you’re relaxed and in a new location, it’s easy to get carried away. It’s rare that anything comes out of a holiday fling though. Sometimes some couples start something more serious, but for the most part, the romance ends when your holiday does. It’s cool to keep in touch every once in a while, but don’t expect the guy to play long-distance boyfriend.

Don’t waste time

That’s right, you’re only there for a little while. Why play games? I mean, I’m not saying jump into bed with the first guy you see (unless you want to), but regular rules don’t apply here. There is no need to wait, to play coy, to pretend you’re not interested because we’re all adults here and know what’s happening. Wasting time playing coy only means you’ll have less time for the fun bits. ;)

Remember your friends

Yes, your friends want you to have a good time, but being that person that ditches her mates at the first sign of ‘man’ is not cool. Remember that you guys came to have fun and spend time together. Plus if your friends are mad at you, who else are you going to share all the juicy gossip with? 

Be safe

This is not the time to go bareback because he “said he was tested and was clean.” Always be safe and wear a condom no matter what he says. Also be aware of your surroundings and let your friends know where you’ll be. Don’t disappear without telling anyone, not only because that is irresponsible but because it makes it hard for people to look for you if something happens. Nothing ruins a good romance than an STD or some other trouble.

Let loose

Have fun girl! You’re on holiday and you have a hot man by your side!

About Coleen Singer:

Coleen Singer is a writer, photographer, film editor and all-around geeky gal at Sssh.com (@ssshforwomen), where she often waxes eloquent about Female Friendly Porn, sex, pleasure products, censorship, the literary and pandering evils of Fifty Shades of Grey and other topics not likely to be found on the Pulitzer Prize shortlist. She is also the editor and curator of EroticScribes.com. When she is not doing all of the above, Singer is an amateur stock-car racer and enjoys modifying vintage 1970s cars for the racetrack. Oh, she also likes porn.

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