How to Sext: 10 Dirty Lines That Actually Work

Master Seduction in the Filthiest Medium of All: Your Phone. Here is The Official How to Sext Guide

You want to learn how to sext like a filthy poet? Good. That means ditching the stiff, try-hard lines and leaning into confidence, creativity, and just the right amount of “Did I really just send that?” energy. Because let’s be honest, nothing kills the vibe faster than: “Wyd babe?” Or worse… “u up?”

Sexting is not casual conversation. It’s foreplay. It’s fantasy. It’s sending a digital pulse through someone’s body with nothing but well-placed words and the illusion of skin. When done right, sexting isn’t a backup plan for people who can’t meet up. It’s kink via keyboard. Erotica in your pocket. And a hell of a way to build tension so thick you could lube it and ride it.

Why Sexting Works (and Why It’s Hotter Than Half the Stuff You’ve Tried in Bed)

When you text something filthy, your partner has to imagine it. They’re not just reacting to your body—they're building the whole scene in their mind. Which means they’re mentally undressing you, narrating the moans, calculating the friction… all from a phrase you fired off while lying in bed with oatmeal on your shirt.

Sexting builds tension, desire, and longing. It lets you be a dirty tease on demand without needing perfect lighting, waxed parts, or fresh breath. Also? People get weirdly bold via text. You’ll be shocked at what you’re willing to say (and hear) when you don’t have to make eye contact after.

Below are 10 cheeky, clever, actually-hot sext lines that don’t make you cringe. Use them word-for-word, remix them with your own flair, or send them as late-night bombs when you know they’re one vibration away from falling apart.

#1 Start With Mood, Not Moans

Don’t leap into “I wanna %$@# you raw.” Try:

You know that lazy stretch-after-a-nap horny? Yeah. That’s me right now.

It’s vibey, honest, and gets the engine running without jumping to the finale.

#2 Build a Scene

Instead of “I miss you,” say:

If you were next to me, I’d already have my legs over your shoulders. Just saying.

#3 Describe What You’re (Not) Wearing

Simple, classic, effective:

Wearing just that bra/briefs you like. Waiting for a reason to take it off.

Bonus points if you’re really wearing a hoodie, but who’s checking?

#4 Use Real-Life Superpowers

Keep it flirty and playful:

I can make myself come in 4 minutes. Wanna time me?

#5 Turn Up the Tease With Questions

Sexting is a two-way game. Try:

What do you want me to touch first?

Or:

Should I keep going... or save it for when I’m actually inside you?

#6 Make It a Countdown

Give them something to wait for:

Three fingers. Two minutes. One rule: no touching yourself until I’m done texting.

#7 Drop a Voice Note Bomb

Send a 10-second breathy description of what you’re doing—or about to do.

Whispered filth > actual sext scenes.

#8 Flip It Into a Challenge

Make them work for it:

If you guess what I’m touching, I’ll send you a picture. Guess wrong, and I edge myself five more minutes.

#9 Use Deferred Gratification

This is literal edge play-by-text:

I was gonna tell you what I’m doing right now but... you’ll have to earn it.

#10 Get a Little Self-Deprecating

Sexy doesn’t have to be serious:

My vibrator just died in the middle of round two. Guess I’ll have to think about your mouth instead.

Dear reader, learning how to sext isn’t about shock value. It’s about seductive wordplay, pacing, and confidence. It’s about knowing that what you don’t say is just as hot as what you do. It’s about making your partner hang on a dot-dot-dot while their brain spirals. So, type it. Send it. Breathe into a voice note like you’re narrating smut. And remember, when your words hit just right, they’ll remember those lines long after the vibrator dies.

Curious sex is the best sex.