How To Go Down on a Girl Like a Pro!

Learn How To Go Down on a Girl Like a Pro! Plus Tips & Tricks To Get Even Better (If You Already Consider Yourself a Pro!

Dear reader, going down on a girl, also referred to as cunnilingus, is a sexual act that involves using the mouth, tongue, lips, and more to stimulate a woman's vulva and clitoris. This practice is as ancient as time itself and is celebrated in erotic literature, art, and even historical and mythological narratives from around the globe.

Image Source: Tales of Time Forgotten: Wall painting from the Suburban Baths in Pompeii, dating to the first century CE.

Caitlin V is a sex educator who made a video with the top techniques for pussy eating. You will learn how to do it, the most common mistakes, and how to improve (even if you consider yourself a pro).  As a person with a vagina married to another person with a vagina, I appreciate her first point. If you’re going down on a woman, you need to approach it like you’re about to have the most delicious meal of your life. You need the enthusiasm and dedication to make the person on the receiving end feel like you could never get enough.

I can’t relate to her next idea, but I know it’s true, so I’ll share it with you. A lot of people with vaginas and people who want to play with vaginas struggle with the scent. If that’s you, it might be helpful to kiss your way down the person’s body and “take a whiff” before you taste it. This can be tricky to discuss without offending someone, so instead of being too direct, you can suggest taking a bath or shower together first. And don’t judge! Even the fabric in little pretty lace panties can throw the vagina’s delicate balance off.

Tips on how to go down on a girl:

• Tease to Please: Don’t go straight to the clit. Tease your way into it.
• Location: Stimulate all the vulva, not just the clit.
• Direction: Pick a direction for your tongue to flow and stick to it. Don’t do tricks like the alphabet because most women need rhythm and consistency to climax.
• Speed: Start slow and build up your pace. “It is a marathon, not a sprint.”
• Pressure: Start with less pleasure and build up.
• Positions: There are more options than her on her back with her legs open.
• Thinking past the tongue: Use your lips, nose, and chin to compliment your tongue.
• The big O: Maintain your rhythm!

How to get better:

Ask questions! Instead of asking questions like “Do you like this?” ask “either-or” questions. For example, “Do you like it better when I do this or that?”

Please pay attention to her verbal and non-verbal cues.

Most common mistakes:

Being too rough

Using your tongue like a sword: Don’t stick out your tongue and use the tip. A flat and wide tongue is more pleasurable.

If done right, cunnilingus can help elevate your relationship to new heights of sexual intimacy. The key is communicating, being patient, and being attentive to your partner's responses. Familiarize yourself with female anatomy. Understand that every vulva is different and that what works for one may not work for another. And always remember that the clitoris has around 8000 nerve endings – double that of a penis.

Sensuality starts with understanding and ends with satisfaction. Going down on a girl is more than just a physical act; it's a dance of intimacy, an expression of desire, and an unwritten pledge to your partner's pleasure. Remember, each woman is a book of secrets waiting to be unraveled. Your greatest tool isn't your tongue or fingers; it's your willingness to learn, explore, and delight in the journey.

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