Here’s your pegging primer that’s withstood the test of time!
Hey, Fleshbot fans! Welcome to Women’s History Month. I’ll be picking Throwback Thursday scenes that center women this month, but of course, as a nerd, I had to feature pegging in the week leading up to International Women’s Day on March 8, because Deadpool with Ryan Reynolds and Morena Baccarin-- oddly enough, I see both Vanessa and her character Inara from Firefly having this same skillset-- am I too old to be a Registered Companion when I grow up?
Bend Over Boyfriend, directed by Shar Rednour for Fatale Media from way back in 1998 is available at PinkLabel.tv, home of many great indie, queer, and vintage porn movies and short films, including more instructional titles to further your sex education. I think I remember seeing this movie for mail order on VHS in the back pages of Cosmo and similar magazines back when I was a curious young person.
Bend Over Boyfriend opens with Dr. Carol Queen and Robert Morgan introducing the video. At the same time, we’re watching a couple who are snuggled up and watching the video in a pretty meta sort of way. Robert explains prostates and how they really are the penis-bearing person's gspot and Carol recommends that people start their anal play journey by talking about their fantasies and learning to do some exercises. She also dispels a few myths about anal sex causing looseness in the anus or anal play causing/worsening hemorrhoids and discusses various ways of physical and emotional preparedness for anal play-- basically-- communication, lubrication, and relaxation are all essential!
They explore forms of anal foreplay including how to rim and how to employ safer sex practices while you’re at it, just grab a dental dam, or in a pinch, that Saran Wrap from the kitchen. They suggest intercourse as a great precursor and then give us a lesson in lubes. Carol answers the burning question of what a vagina-bearing person gets out of pegging and our lovers-watching-the-video people are really starting to get intrigued.
Now it’s time to break out the toys! Carol gives us a tour of plugs and beads in different materials and then we watch the pair of video-viewing lovers get down to pegging the dude and he seems to really enjoy everything as they start with a plug and a bit of spanking and some gloved fingers and Carol expounds on how to select dildos and harnesses and demonstrates how to put the toy in the harness and then it’s time for both Carol and Robert and our video-watching couple to get down to business for roughly the whole second half of the film watching these dudes thoroughly get their asses filled and their balls drained and the ladies love giving it to them!
I enjoyed this fun throwback and found it to be very comprehensive and the same time accessible. All of the information in this film is actually great anal advice for anyone looking to play with buttholes, no matter the gender of the giver or receiver. Go check this out if pegging interests you, and remember, you can grab a strap-on harness and a dong, some anal training plugs, water-based lube, and lots of other goodies with free shipping at the Fleshbot store if you want to try out what you learned!
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