Preparing for a Swingers Party

During the last AVN event, I was honored to host some of the hottest swinger parties in Vegas.  It was a great opportunity for me to catch up with old couples and get to know new couples.

I find that swingers party are very fun for me because I love being around sexual environment and it’s very entertaining to try to answer the “Who is with who” question.

Every party is different but here are some tips to help you prepare and enjoy a swinger party

• Choosing which party to go can be such a dilemma. However, some popular swing websites allow you to view a list of couples who will be attending to that party.  Based on the list and your preference, you can decide which party to attend and set up a first meeting with that couple there. 
• Don’t be shy! From the last party, me and Emily, one of the wives I was with, spotted a woman in a red dress with a handsome man. Emily wanted to talk to the couple but she was a bit shy to walk up and start the conversation.  My natural instinct is whenever I see someone I want, I go after it.  Don’t be shy to introduce yourself because the worst thing they can say is “No”. 
• Don’t be pushy.  It may seem opposite from my last tip, you want to be straightforward but you don’t want to appear pushy either. You have to watch the body language to decide if they’re willingly to move forward or not. Back to my red-dress girl and handsome man couple, I noticed that the man looked away often and the girl was constantly checking on her phone.  I sensed that they weren’t interested and the chemistry isn’t there so I said it was great meeting them but I will have to move on to another couple. You have to know when to stop!
• Have fun and be safe! That was very explanatory, always practice safe sex at swinger party and just have fun.  You will have some hit and miss but you can make great friends