Sex-Ed with Ebony Mystique: “Sex Is Art”

Ebony Mystique is strikingly beautiful, glamorous, and charming. I am sure she’s always been the brightest crayon in the box. Talking to her was a pleasure, and I am excited to share her tips and tricks so we can all (safely) fuck like a porn star.

Ebony’s tips and tricks are highly appreciated because she is a nurse, besides being an adult actress. You may not remember (wink-wink), but in 2019 there was a little virus called “Corona” that started wreaking havoc worldwide.  Back then, amid the chaos, Ebony worked as a frontline nurse. It was a terrifying and confusing situation for everyone. But it was especially challenging for people like Ebony, who was in charge of saving lives and answering questions when we had no answers.

Dear reader, have you heard about the Madonna-Whore Complex? It’s one of Freud’s questionable but still relevant theories. He basically said that it’s difficult for our little brains to accept that a woman can be a Madonna (saintly, mother, caretaker, loyal) and a whore (according to this theory, any woman that fucks for pleasure). Freud believed that if you have a Madonna-Whore Complex, you might think it’s impossible for a kind, gentle, and loving caretaker to be a big-dick-loving adult actress. But Ebony is much more than that. She is a nurse, an adult actress, a brand, and a force to be reckoned with.

As “Corona” became COVID-19, Ebony started playing around with the idea of becoming an adult actress. It’s something she had considered before but not as seriously. She jokingly said a fundamental but unfortunate truth:

“Some of the body enhancements I was getting for myself were totally inappropriate. It’s [the hospital] not the place for Dr. Dan or Dr. Dick to be like, “Hey, baby! You look beautiful today.” That is sexual harassment. If you like getting glammed up, it’s just not the place to be. My personality probably didn’t fit the job description… externally.

Because internally, I’m a humanitarian, I love people, human nature, the human body… it’s all very intriguing to me. I really care about people and seeing them well. Trying to fix problems is one of my problems. And a lot of nurses and doctors want to be adored. Maybe secretly, but you want to hear, “You are beautiful. You look beautiful today,” even if you are saving lives.

There’s no place to be beautified or glamorous in the medical field.”

Maybe Freud was on to something… He was wrong about women either being caretakers or sexual beings, but he was right about people being confused by it. There’s another psychological phenomenon called cognitive dissonance that helps explain how people can sustain seemingly contradictory ideas—for example, a person who attends church every week but is a sex worker. Sex work is condemned by most, if not every, religion. However difficult it is for us to process, Ebony Mystique exudes sexual magnetism, radiates self-love and confidence, and is always going to be a kick-ass nurse that can save lives with her hands and brain.

“If you’re going to do something, do it right.”

That’s what Ebony said to me when I asked about her career change. Even though she doesn’t miss the 12-hour long shifts, she explained that she is and will always be a nurse:

Even though Ebony misses driving home at the end of the day, knowing that she spent her day saving lives, she feels that thanks to her OnlyFans, she still gets to make a massive difference in people’s lives. Because of her medical background, Ebony Mystique feels she has a responsibility to share knowledge that can improve people’s sex lives:

“I’ll always keep my license active because I want to be able to use the knowledge of medicine because it’s very much needed. People are doing all kinds of weird stuff to get to point B from point A. That could be why young men have ejaculation problems but are scared to talk about it. Women don’t know what BV is and are masking it with the worst things ever. Everyone is living over the counter.

People need education. And I think that because I have the medical background, that will make it legal, more qualified, and more valuable.”

* Bacterial vaginosis (BV) is a common cause of unusual vaginal discharge. BV is not a sexually transmitted infection (STI), but it can increase your risk of getting an STI such as chlamydia.

Ebony Mystique is very serious about sexual education and plans on taking the necessary time to organize the information and knowledge she has for us. Of course, she recently became a Brazzers Contract Star and was the first person to be invited publicly, so the cool AF Ebony might be busy for a while. Holly Kingston interviewed Ebony Mystique in 2021 for Fleshbot. Ebony shared the one thing she would teach a woman who wants to be a better sexual partner:

"Know your body first. If you aren’t tuned in to what you like, your wants, what makes you feel good, how can someone else do it to the full extent? And when they like it, keep doing that, right there."

I asked Ebony what “fucking like a pornstar” meant to her. She explained that what she does on set is professional acting and not necessarily what she enjoys in her personal sex life. Of course, everything has a time and a place, including gagging, but her magical scenes are professional productions that take hours of work to put together:

Here are some words of advice for all her vagina-loving fans:

In an interview with Holly Randall, Ebony talked about how important it is to be a brand. I agree with her. In any business and industry, it’s crucial to have a backup plan and multiple sources of income. Besides her adult work, Ebony has a production studio, is developing a line of CBD products, and plans on contributing to our sexual education. She has advice for other adult actors and actresses looking to build something with the name they’ve worked on creating:

Ebony Mystique is, without a doubt, becoming a legend. She LOVES her fans and loves having the opportunity to get to know them and give them 100,000% on her page. She wants to leave her fans with some last words of advice. STUDY ANATOMY. You need to understand and know the human body to have fun and pleasure. If you’re trying anal, and it doesn’t feel good, don’t push. Just pull out and try in a different position. Respect your body and listen to your partner. Look into their face and don’t try to guess if they like what you’re doing.

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Oh, and just an added bonus. Here's a great new exclusive scene with Ebony at Brazzers entitled, "Tongue Tied & Pussy-Whipped".