Kinky Japan Part 2

Yesterday, in Part 1 of this series, I explained the history that sheds light on why Japanese kinks are so… particular. Sakoku was the over 200-year period (17^th-19^th century) during the Edo period when Japan was isolated. Relations and trade between Japan and other countries were severely limited, and nearly all foreign nationals were banned from entering the country without authorization.

This isolation and the Shinto religious traditions that view sexuality as entirely natural and something that is meant to be enjoyed created a safe space for people to explore what turns them on.

From bukkake and tsubashanpu to tentacle erotica where women (sometimes men) get violated by octopi, part 1 of this article is full of interesting information you should check out before moving on to these other kinks and fun facts.

Prostitution is extremely common in Japan, and so are Host Clubs. These clubs can be found in Japan’s nightlife districts, and they cater to men and women with a lot of extra cash to spend on their host and fancy champagne. If you don’t have much disposable income, you can find a Love Motel instead.

Source: https://www.wired.com/2015/02/misty-keasler-love-hotels/

Close your eyes and imagine a sexy scenario. Now google “your fantasy + love motel Japan” and realize it might be time for you to start planning a fantasy-inspired trip. You can rent rooms by the hour or night… just in case you were wondering. What do you think of the Naughty nurse play area in Hotel Adonis, Osaka?

Source: https://foundation.app/@NYOTAIMORITOKYO/NYOTAIMORI/2

Nyotaimori connotes the act of eating food, often sushi, off a woman’s naked body. There are restaurants, most are very expensive and luxurious, that cater to this kink, and they are most frequented by high paid salary men.

Honestly, I don’t think I would mind having a seat at that table, nor would I mind having my naked body covered in sushi. I might or might not add this to my Japan to-do list.

Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ahegao

Ahegao is when someone (usually a woman) makes an exaggerated facial expression during sex, typically with rolling or crossed eyes, protruding tongue, and a slightly reddened face to show enjoyment or ecstasy. This is common in hentai.

Source: http://templo-kaori.blogspot.com/2011/07/las-munecas-sexuales-japonesas.html

Datch Waifu are silicone sex dolls that can be highly realistic. They got their name from the Dutch Wife, a bamboo pillow that Dutch sailors used to make to relieve them from the heat. Considering they cost around $6,000, I’m pretty sure that’s not the only use for these sex dolls. But don’t worry about things not working out if you decide to make the investment. Dutch Waifu come with a lifetime guarantee.

Source: https://www.deviantart.com/shokicho/art/A-junior-high-school-student-s-omorashi-904236828

­­Omorashi or omo translates to “to wet oneself,” but the fetish is much more than that. In this Japanese fetish, participants experience arousal from having a full bladder, wetting themselves, wearing a diaper, or seeing someone else experience a full bladder or wetting themselves. This has nothing to do with golden showers, which we’re more familiar with. Here, sexual arousal is associated with the sensation of having to urinate due to a full bladder.

Bathroom use control, common in the BDSM community, is used to describe when omorashi play in which the dominant controls how and when the submissive is allowed to use the bathroom.

A big part of omorashi is garment fetishism. The object of this fetish is clothed incontinence, and videos don’t necessarily feature direct sexual contact, so outfits are a prominent feature. Whether it’s a school uniform or something a working professional would wear, the goal is to seem or try to seem dignified before succumbing to the need to urinate.

Fetishists who are into omorashi have different scenarios they enjoy. Still, a typical example would be to wet yourself while clothed (or watch someone wet themselves while clothed) and waiting in line for a bathroom.

There are subcultures and many ways in which omorashi is practiced in Japan.

Omorashi Yagai translates as “to wet oneself outdoors (or publicly). There are people who, even more specifically, need their clothes to be removed to urinate and people who want to not-get-caught while they urinate publicly. We should warn graffiti artists and tell them to watch where they step next time they go out.

Other subcultures are omutsu omaroshi, in which participants wear a diaper and skirt omarashi. Some people find it attractive when someone wets themselves in a skirt since it allows for upskirt views of the wetting.

Fact: Most fetish activities concerning the use of bodily waste are considered hardcore, taboo, or edge play.

Bebigyaru, which I mentioned in part 1 of this article, fetishists are turned on by diaper-wearing, teetering, and drinking out of baby bottles. This is, for me, one of the strangest Japanese fetishes. This fetish was popularized by middle-aged men who worked all day and wanted to come home and be treated like babies. Are you also noticing how common diaper fetishes are in Japan?

Here I am again, wondering what Freud would say about all these kinks!  From the silicone sex dolls to the sexual gratification resulting from controlling urination to wanting to wear a diaper and drink out of a baby bottle after work, there’s a lot to say about the particular sexual experiences of a society that was isolated culturally for +++.

Zettai Ryokiu is a very famous kink known by many anime fans that refers to the bare skin between a girl’s knee socks and short skirts. It is also known as delicious thighs, and there are precise proportions of sock to thigh to skirt that make or break the fantasy. It is a top-choice fetish in Japan.

Having been in Japan, I can safely say that exploring any of these kinks is just one of the many excellent reasons to visit and explore the country. Japan is extremely different in every single aspect of what it means to be socialized. The discipline, order, and sexuality are almost opposed to what we’re used to, and I highly recommend you plan a little trip.