Sexy Vanessa on Being a MILF

Beautiful Porn Pioneer Made It Possible for MILFs to be MILFs.

During the savage and untamed year of 2003, something important happened in online pornographic history. An Italian-Argentinian woman who has been called the “World’s First MILF” entered the industry and changed it forever. We call her Sexy Vanessa. She calls herself a “cat woman” who believes that animals are better than people and provide unconditional love. She lives in Boca Raton, which she deems “paradise.”

What Was the Industry Like When You Entered It?
SV: Before MILF, you didn’t work. After a few years, you didn’t have any work in the industry. We wanted to start something different. With a MILF, they like younger guys, so younger guys go after the older women.

I did my first MILF movie for MILF Hunter. I wanted to do something outrageous. I wanted to do something crazy, outrageous, and different. And I did it and it felt so natural, and I felt so comfortable. I did great. That movie was really crazy. Everybody loved me for that movie. Everybody saw that movie. The first MILF Hunter. I just really liked it.

You Have a Fascinating Back Story. How Did You Get Into Adult?
SV: I started by accident, really. It was an accident. I was not planning. I was doing just home movies with my boyfriend. It was an accident that I was invited to do the first MILF movie. I was in my forties. Before this, I did shows for 10 years in this country. I did shows for a long time, since I was 18. I got a little bored and wanted to do something a little more exciting, and I always loved sex. Always. I am very passionate, and I love sex. Mostly I am in a lot of fantastic movies with my ex-boyfriend.

You Are 68-Years Beautiful. How Much Longer Will You Work In Adult?
SV: Yes, I’m still working. and I keep working, and I don’t plan to retire. I enjoy very much my work. You have to like what you do, and I just live with passion. I love what I am doing. When I was younger, I started very late because I moved to this country late. In my 30s. When I was younger, I was a showgirl. An actress. I worked in mainstream movies. I am backward. Usually, you are a porn star and you can become an actress. It can happen. But never do you start out as an actress and become a porn star. It’s like, backward.

I don’t see a change in my values so I’m going to continue. It’s so important to work and to be busy and do something you really like to keep you alive and young. I can’t even imagine being retired and being home doing nothing. I always have to be active. Now I’m working on my book. I can’t imagine a life without work. And I look good, so why not? Why should I retire? In the meantime, the fans love me and they want me, and they want more of me. How can I retire?

What Has Changed Since You Entered the Industry?
SV: It was beautiful but now they’re too fast. They want to do the movie too fast. They don’t want to spend too much time. It’s changed a lot since when I started making my movies 20 years ago. It was one story. It was fun. No going straight to the point, to the sex like now. It’s changed a lot, yes. I don’t know why they try to do MILF movies with young girls. They try to transform a young girl in her 20s into a MILF. They try to make her look mature when there are so many mature women who are good-looking, and they maintain themselves beautifully. Why not use a real MILF instead of a young girl? It makes no sense to me. No sense. Is there not enough talent there that they can use that they keep using the same talent over and over?

The industry is hungry for beautiful women. They need more mature women. Because mature women are comfortable in our own skin. We know what we like. We have more experience, and we can give more to the industry, to the movies. Please, do it! We need more MILFs. Be active and seductive. You can do it! You need to have that passion and you need to make love with your heart.

What Is SexyVanessa Doing Right Now?
SV: These days I am my own producer and I own a website, SexyVanessa.com. So, I am very busy. Maybe one day I will work for a company again, But I am enjoying doing my own movies, signing my own talent. It has to be talent that I have an attraction to. I don’t just shoot with anybody. That’s one of the problems with the companies. You go to the site and they have anybody there, maybe somebody you don’t like or you don’t feel comfortable with. That’s why you work for yourself. You pick your own talent, and you make the movie the way you want to do it. Not the way they want to do it. Before the movie, I talk with the talent. “Just please do it like it’s real. Don’t act. Let’s do it real.” This is real. You and me are having passionate sex. Please, kiss me. It’s very important, kissing. Now the actors in the movies don’t kiss, it’s so cold. No fire. That’s what I want in my movies, that fire. On the site, there are bigger names in the talent pool and the content is more produced and slicker. If you want to see me more real, with a fan maybe, then OnlyFans.com/sexyvanessa is more real. I become friends with my fans with phone sex, Facetime, and many custom videos. I am very busy!

I am also working on my book. I have a really crazy life story. A star in Argentina and Mexico, and it’s really crazy and I decided to write a book. I might need two books because my life is too intense and crazy and long for one. I do not have a working title for my book yet, but I have no kids, no husband, no boyfriend. I have all the time I need to do whatever I and the cats want.