You’re Putting Your Finger Where?!

Okay. First of all, I really love sex. I really love it when I'm with someone who knows what they're doing and it's usually my right hand but that's another post.

So here goes: in short, what might work for one partner might NOT work for another so before you begin twisting my nipples hard or sliding a finger up my ass, do ONE THING FIRST.  It's really simple. Ready?

ASK ME IF I LIKE IT BEFORE YOU DO IT! The little words "can I ....?" mean a lot. It means a) what you will be doing is consensual b) I'll answer you honestly c) it will feel great because I'll WANT it and d) you won't get me pissed at you for trying to slip your finger up my ass or cause me to grab my boobs in agony because you thought it I would enjoy a purple nurple.

Sure, maybe you've had partners that have liked it and have slipped it in (or whatever) with every new partner and found them squirming in delight but maybe think they were squirming for other reasons and didn't want to tell you not to do "that." Sometimes, we girls don't want to say "no" to something in the sack just to be nice so here's your chance to score points by simply ASKING first.

So on behalf of me and maybe a shit ton of future partners, thanks for reading. Now time for action...