Checking In with Porn Star/Director/Author Erik Everhard

Erik Has Answers!

Veteran porn performer/director Erik Everhard has a brand new sexual advice book for men out now. Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers: A Porn Star’s Guide to Sexual Mastery is out now on Audible and Kindle with the print edition of the book releasing next month. His years of performing with porn's beautiful women have given him a lot of information on how to sexually please women and he shares that information very well in this. He is shown in the images here in a recently released scene in Rocco Siffredi/Evil Angel's "Rocco's Psycho Teens 14" and he shares his thoughts on his book here.

Hello, Erik! How are you doing? How are things going in your world?"

Things are excellent, I've really been enjoying my new direction and purpose in life and in business. It always feels good to be driven by a mission and purpose in life, I think ultimately a lot of men are suffering from having a clear directive for their life."

Congrats on the release of your book Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers: A Porn Star’s Guide to Sexual Mastery on Audible and Kindle with the physical release of the book happening in October! How does it feel to have your book out there in the world?

"Well I'll have to truly admit that I'm very proud of what I created. It's taken 3 long years to go through the whole process, from writing, to re-writing, to editing, design, and now building the foundational business behind the book. I learned so much along the way, especially when it comes to self mastery and ultimately chunking down a goal of this magnitude. So many people will always tell you that they want to write a book....yet they never do. Why? Well I found it's because they aren't willing to put in the structured, "unsexy" work to get it accomplished. At some point you really just need to view your writing through the lens of a day job.....you wake up, you drink your coffee, and then you punch the clock and just sit and write. No matter how creative you feel, or how uninspired......just sit down and fucking write. If you can do that, you'll ultimately have a book in your hands. And it's nice to think about something tangible that can alter the course of people's lives, that can ultimately live on and on after I'm gone from this world."

What inspired you to write this? What made you want to help men with their sex lives?

"Well I had a number of civilian lovers in Los Angeles, and they would all lament about just how difficult it was out there in the "real world" before they had met me. And they often would comment that I needed to write a book or teach their ex-boyfriends the techniques that I was using on them. This was what initially planted the seed for the book. However the seed for coaching in some aspect was planted much earlier, as I began training in Neuro Linguistic Programming in 2010. For 3 years I trained up in Marin County, just outside of San Francisco. While there I met many accomplished trainers and coaches who all seemed to agree that I had a natural talent for coaching people. So when I step back and look at everything now, it's really just an amalgamation of my skill sets that have come together in the best way to help others. I'm a big proponent of men's rights and I feel that in a lot of ways things are harder than ever for men. And the weight of expectations is higher than ever, so in the specific area of sexuality, I really feel equipped to help men level up their lives and take their sexual skill sets to the next level."

You also are available for individual coaching for men who want more personalized advice. What do you think that those sessions offer that your book does not?

"Well for one thing, everytime I work with someone it's an individual experience. I'm looking to go deeper into their psychology, uncover their current belief systems, see what it is that has them creating their specific world view. Then from that place I can see what areas they are struggling with and what things might be the highest leverage for them to look at. This customized look at their problems and issues I find helps to pinpoint an effective solution, which can encompass not only the physical/ knowledge/ technique areas, but the mental, and psychological as well. At the end of the day people get access and accountability from me, both of which are priceless tools that you can never get directly from a textbook."

What sexperts/sexuality researchers have really taught you most in your work?

"None. Everything that I talk about in my book was gained from my boots on the ground knowledge and experimentation over 22 years with over 5000 women. That's the kind of knowledge that no PHD can touch."

What about being a male pern star has really given you "sexual mastery"? Is it the performance aspect or is it something else?

"Well it's a number of different things. Firstly it's the vast experience. It's just not common for the average man to have slept with so many women, and within that vast amount of partners is a ton of knowledge. Because eventually you start to see themes, see the way certain women respond to certain stimuli. You start to see the bigger picture about sex, the different types of vaginas, and how some aspects of sex are universal. Then it's the mental mastery. Being placed in the most extreme of high pressure sexual interactions day after day, and being expected to PERFORM, or be out of a job. Working in porn for a guy is more about mental mastery than it is even about physical mastery. And once you've honed and calloused your mind on the battlefield of porno, you now have a gift to share with the world. Because the same mental hacks that allow me to get a hardon in front of 20 or 30 strangers and under the most heinous conditions at times, are still applicable to the civilian guy who is going home with a girl from the bar for the first time. The same techniques that I use to last on set for over an hour, are just as applicable to the guy who struggles with premature ejaculation at home. He's just lacking the knowledge and skill sets to break through to the other side because no one has taught him how. Nobody taught him the correct penis exercises to do. Nobody taught him how to alter his neurological response to stimuli, nobody taught him how certain supplements can alter how fast or slow he ejaculates. Nobody taught him because nobody had to LEARN these things or be out of a job. Nobody except me. So when I talk about sexual mastery, it's the perfect storm of knowledge of women, physical mastery or your body, and mastery of your mind."

I hope that you and all of your loved ones have been safe and healthy through the global pandemic. How do you think that COVID-19 will change the porn industry in the long run?

"Well I personally think that "mainstream" porn as we know it will eventually die out and will be simply replaced by Onlyfans shot at home content. I don't think that COVID will cause this, but I do see it accelerating the process."

Your photography is excellent and I really enjoy your Instagram account. Do you have plans to release that in book form as well? What do you love most about your photography?

"When I finally retire I would like to dedicate part of my time to photography. I spent years attending night school classes in black and white photography while I was living in Los Angeles. What I love about photography is that you can create an emotional impact in a single frame. The whole story is there if you do it right. And I especially love black and white, that shows you the real soul of the photo. Some color pictures only look interesting because of the pop of color.....remove the color however and they are simply boring. A good black and white can keep you mesmerized."

What else is coming up for you? What should your fans be on the lookout for?

"Well upcoming we have the book launch, there are some pre-launch book deals we have already at https://www.sexualsuperpowers.com/pre-launch-book/.
In addition to the book, I will be producing some courses on particular topics as well as a membership portal where guys can come and learn and get help with whatever problems they are suffering from in the bedroom."

Is there anything that you would like to say to your fans here at Fleshbot?
"Well I would like to thank all the fans that have watched me perform, grow, and mature over the last 22 years. It's been quite a ride and I look forward to serving them in this new capacity moving forward. So that they have the opportunity to find and unleash their own sexual superpowers as well."

All of the images and video here appear courtesy of Rocco Siffredi Productions/Evil Angel.