Twenty Questions with Porn Star Samantha Hayes

Samantha's Sensual Life

Gorgeous Samantha Hayes always gives her all in every scene, and I am in love with her sexual work ethic. She is so fucking fine—check her out above all bound at the wrists—and really, you need to get acquainted with her so get to it by checking out what happens below:

What kind of girl were you back in high school? Who did you hang out with/date?

"Honestly, I was very shy and quiet in high school. I was described as the awkward emo goth girl who preferred to keep her nose in a book [rather] than stir up anything. I started college at 16 and finally came out of my shell a bit and started hanging out with a lot of incredible people. My group hung out in the commons playing hacky sack and singing rap songs on acoustic guitars. For my first few years of high school, I had an incredible, sweet boyfriend from Catholic school, but once we broke up I was not in a rush to be in a relationship or date—I was more into work and hookups when I got horny, and I had one other serious relationship that really ignited my sexuality."

Were you a porn fan before you got into the industry? Who were your favorite porn stars/favorite porn movies?

"I wasn't a huge porn fan but I had a basic knowledge of some companies and bigger name stars. I didn't really have a favorite."

What kind of scene have you found is your favorite kind to do?

"I like BDSM scenes the best by far, but lesbian scenes and scenes with two male talent I need more of in my life. I like being dominated and whether I'm in a BBG or BBGG without a BDSM or kink aspect to it, having double the masculine energy definitely ups the ante in my submission because I want to please both of them. I got into porn because I love women and wanted more pussy in my life, so every time I'm booked for a lesbian scene I'm basically cumming in my panties until the day of, LOL."

What/who do you want to do on-camera that you haven’t done yet?

"I want a blowbang, damn it!!! I have been craving one for months now but haven't gotten to experience it."

Who is your favorite female performer to work with and why?

"Honestly, I am in love with making love with Ember Stone. We worked together for ATK and for Amateur Allure. I am in love with her free flowing passion and genuine sexuality. Finding a girl who loves girls as much as I do and can vibe and get along well with on and off set is incredible."

You respond to your fans a lot on Twitter. What do you like most about talking to your fans on social media?

"It's so important to me—I have the best fans! Honestly, prior to getting into porn, I had no expectations of what 'fans' would mean, and now I have people who message me every day just to tell me they hope I have a good day, and it genuinely puts a smile on my face! I could be feeling kinda crappy and I have someone checking in, just to say hey and I like checking in with them too. Many don't even write anything sexual! I like that social media has allowed my fans to get to know me in an intimate way, and that they hold conversations about things other than my on camera escapades. I really did not have any expectations about fans in porn, but I definitely did not imagine that I'd have such great conversations and make such sweet connections.:)"

How did you become a porn performer? What led you down that career path?

"Well, I was just out of high school and my second year of college. I had been working at Panera and promoted to management at 17. I loved putting in hard work and seeing the pay off in my paycheck, but could not handle how corrupt the higher ups were. The craziness that went on! It put me off restaurants for awhile, thinking about how many times I had to work when I was sick because I'd get threatened with being fired if I called off.

When I turned 18, I quit, and a few weeks after did my first nude photo shoot. It was non-explicit, artistic nudes and the photographer laid it all out in front of me with a set pay for the hour, and I brought my boyfriend at the time with me. I started networking and meeting photographers and a recruiter for my current agency, Matrix Models. For a few months I would do a few artistic nude and fetish shoots while working a HORRIBLE part time job at Zoup. My modeling gigs were paying the bills and my part-time job paid for gas to get there and back.

It is worth noting that during this period, I was really undergoing a sexual awakening—my partner at the time was very experienced, and I couldn't believe how many times and how many ways I could orgasm! I began dating a wonderful girl who was also in an open relationship, and when she moved back home I realized how much I needed a change. I needed two things: a well paying job I didn't hate, and pretty girls to eat. I was honestly willing to go to California and shoot for free, just pay my plane ticket out there and let me eat my weight in vagina!

Obviously, it doesn't work like that, so I went out, got tested, ate pussy, got paid, and decided I really enjoyed it and wanted more. The more people I met who had been in the industry for awhile, I realized I felt at home. Making what would've been a month's paycheck at my old job in a day doing what I love was far less degrading than having a 26-year-old tell me I was wiping tables wrong. I am a genuinely sexual person, a kinky slut, and the porn industry allows me to explore my deepest sexual fantasies in a safe, regulated environment while supporting myself and profiting off of what so much of society shames."

What do you most want to achieve as a porn star?

"Honestly, I've already hit a few of the goals on my bucket list. :) My biggest goal right now is to find other webcam-curious or experienced models and porn performers who want a better webcamming experience with my studio since day one Midnight Muses. We're hoping to expand into the VR webcam world, and get a safe/sane/kinky space in LA for our models to travel, shoot, cam, and trade content together."

What is one thing you would teach a woman who wanted to be a better sexual partner?

"If a woman wants to be a better sexual partner, she needs to know first and foremost know how to get herself off. She needs to know what turns her on, what turns her off, what she's curious about, and what is an absolute no-go in the bedroom for her. The only way you can connect with a partner is by first connecting with yourself. I highly recommend an organic water based gel lubricant (Sliquid is my favorite!) and the Hitachi Magic Wand plug in after a bubble bath. Also, don't waste your time with sexual partners who doesn't put your pleasure first. Be open and communicate, before, during, after, and always, because even though we forget it sometimes, our partners CANNOT always read our minds and know exactly what we want and need. Speak up. Tell them, show them, and enjoy. Life is way too stressful, and sex is way too fun to do anything except enjoy it."

What do you think that people assume about porn stars that just is not true?

"I think that there are two separate and different thought schools that outsiders have on porn stars that simply aren't accurate:

The first, is that we are all damaged mentally, riddled with STDs, and fucked up on drugs when really its not as widespread as people think. Yes, there are many who fit into the stereotype but I've personally never been offered drugs on set or seen anyone show up high, but maybe I'm just lucky. I know plenty of people in porn who are completely sober, or only drink/smoke marijuana, a lot of us went to college and even have degrees. I also think the general public doesn't realize that we are tested every 14 days and that production is very strictly regulated—we're probably cleaner than the no-name you banged at the bar. It is in fact possible to enjoy getting paid to have sex with another tested professionals without being at the end of the rope and desperate—there are a lot of happy, genuinely sexual people in the porn industry who have found a job where they get to get paid to do what they love.

The second is that because we are sexual people, getting paid to have sex on camera for all to see, people have this sense of entitlement and even ownership over us, our bodies, and our sexualities. I know I'm not alone when I say I get more dick pics, "send me nudes BB" and "how much to fuck u" messages than I can count, in addition to begging me to do certain acts on film. Porn and escort work are not, in fact, synonymous. Some performers do, and while that is their choice it is not something every performer does, and it's rude to assume that because you saw her on a porn site you just need to name your price and she'll be served up on a silver platter. I find these messages incredibly upsetting—I am a a young woman exploring my sexuality with other tested professionals and sharing them with the viewers as an additional exhibitionist thrill—I don't want to meet up with some stranger danger on the internet! Also, very important: Porn performers are people, not just trained genitals, and I find it intrusive getting 'do this, do that' messages about acts I might not even do in my personal life. We are sharing OUR bodies, OUR sexualities with each other and with our viewers, and it's better to be appreciative of what we choose to share with you then demand we give you more. I don't like to call myself a performer because for me, my scenes are genuine free flowing sexuality where I just give in to the moment and share my pleasure."

What do you think are “must-have” DVDs for your fans?

"Most recently, 'Dominance & Submission' for Digital Sin with the Goddess Miss Rachael Madori! I couldn't be more honored for that cover—I had a beautiful Domme who let me drink in her decadence and squirted ALL OVER ME. It was intense, and beautiful, and a most definite must-see. I had only ever been dominated by women in threesomes with men, so to have a lesbian BDSM experience for the first time with someone with such a genuinely deep rooted dominant personality as Miss Madori, it was an absolute honor. From the second I got on set and met her, I just could not contain my excitement. I'm definitely going to have two copies in my house, and probably try to pay her to sign it because that was honestly a day I will not forget. Each set I'm on with Eddie Powell is incredible.

I also think each and every one needs a membership to kink.com and girlsway.com. These two companies are the best of both my favorite worlds: hardcore BDSM sex and lesbian loving!!! I've done four scenes for Kink.com so far and love that I have been able to explore my submissive nature and be trained behind these wonderful walls. I've explored and experimented with toys I never knew existed and squirted more than I thought possible! Girlsway does what most lesbian pornos lack: they let real women who love women do what they do best and produce an incredibly detailed and beautiful product. The first scene for the Clairvoyance mini series starring myself, Dahlia Sky and Charlotte Stokely has recently launched and it was a literal dream come true! Since staring porn, I wanted to be able to present my love for women and their deliciousness and Girlsway's detailed scripts and free flowing nature for sex scenes and am honored to have gotten to be part of such an incredible product."

What do you like to do for fun?

"Honestly, the best part of my day is waking up and having my morning coffee and cuddles with my boyfriend and my kitty, setting our good intentions for the day. I really enjoy traveling and camping, and haven't gotten to go off the grid nearly enough as of late. I also love yoga and meditation. I was always a huge reader but now prefer to read about philosophy and DIY tricks. I also cherish spending time with my family and try to get together with them at least once a week when I'm in my home town. I like surrounding myself with people who have good energy and that want happiness. I also consider my job very fun and eating girls out in general as extremely fun, so hide your girlfriends/wives cause I might try to bang them."

Do you have any role models in porn?

"I admire the directors and agents for being able to manage all of the craziness that is involved in shooting and running smoothly. I also have to give a shout out to the veterans who have stuck it out for a few years seeing girls come and go and staying rooted in who they are at their core instead of focusing too much on who they are on camera."

What fetishes do you find hot?

"Financial domination is probably one of the sexiest fetishes to me, to be honest. The only kind of submissive I feel worthy to serve me is one that can do so financially."

What is the best mainstream movie you have seen recently?

"Finding Dory! I laughed, I cried, everyone needs to see it."

How about the best porno movie? Is there anyone you really like watching who's working now?

"I watched Riley Reid and Aidra Fox go at it on Tushy and oh my gosh. I have really huge crushes on both of them; they're gorgeous sensual Goddesses."

What is coming up for you?

"Fetish Con!!!! I am going to be down in St. Pete for the weekend and can't wait. I'm also planning to go to Exxxotica in Columbus later in the month.:)"

 If you could fuck any celebrity, who would it be?

"Megan Fox. She wouldn't even have to do anything but lie there and let me look at her for like the first three hours."

What single piece of advice would you give a brand new female porn star?

"Make your money, save your money, and stay you. This industry can be whatever you make it, so stay out of the bullshit and have fun!"

Is there anything you want to say to your fans here at Fleshbot?

"Thank you thank you thank you for being a fan! It means a lot to me and you guys are so sweet:) I hope you enjoyed getting to know a little more about me and that I can hear from you soon on Twitter.:)"

All of the images and video here are from Hayes' scene in Digital Sin's "Dominance & Submission".

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