Performance anxiety is a bitch, and most of the time, taking the pressure off yourself entirely is the best way to approach it. For some next level tips, I checked out this thread—because even guys have trouble coming. Here is what the Redditors of the universe have said so far:
So blow job, much patience
"A watched pot never boils" applies to everything—even jizz.
Face fucking: The vagina-with-a-tongue approach
This is especially effective if you like to be dominant.
Fire up the Keurig
If this is true, I should be an Orgasm Machine.
And finally...
Which reminds me: I still need to make Blow Job Playlist for you Fleshlings.