Five Reasons Why Sex with Exes Is Hot by Aria Alexander

September 17, 2015
HOLLY-KINGSTOWN

Aria Alexander Is One Ex with Cravings in New Sensations' "The Exes and Ohhhs"

In the latest release from New Sensations' "Tales From The Heart" imprint, Jacky St. James has written and directed "The Exes and Ohhhs". It is a vignette piece about the cravings we have for lovers past and whether giving in to those cravings is a good idea. Aria Alexander stars in this with her faux ex Ryan McLane, and she just can't help but call him over when she needs—and doesn't need—help with things. Here is what Alexander has to say about sex with exes in an email interview:

"Sex with exes—ooh, that's an interesting subject!" she laughs. "The way I see it, if you were interested enough in someone to date them, then you definitely had a sexual appetite for that person at one point. There's no denying it—relationships without attraction simply don't exist! So even if that person ends up being a jerk or whatever that reason might have been for breaking it off, you're still going to have a deeply rooted desire to fuck them, which leads me to five excellent points on why sleeping with your ex rocks!

"The more you fuck someone, the better you get at fucking them and vice versa. Going out and having sex with strangers is great, don't get me wrong—it's absolutely in my top 5 fun things to do—but sharing your body with someone who knows exactly what will make you cum and how is special. It's going to be 10/10 sex, which isn't guaranteed with someone you're not familiar with.

"Which leads me to my next point, familiarity. Let's say you're fucking someone who got a hold of your source code and they know exactly what makes you tick, exactly what turns you on, gets you off, etc. That'll be undeniably great sex full of passion and orgasms and excitement! But wait—oh, no. You're missing the emotional foundation. Looking into a stranger's eyes is exciting, looking into someone's eyes who you've shared pieces of your life with, beautiful and horrible memories alike, creates a burning intensity that you can't find anywhere else because you're looking into a piece of yourself.

"They're not going to make for an awkward sleepover or cuddles. They're your ex for a reason! You both are responsible adults who know that y'all gave it a good go and it didn't work. Now your encounters are reserved for more-intimate-than-usual booty calls. And that's all right!

" ... Unless, of course, your situation is similar to that of mine and Ryan's in New Sensations' "The Exes and Ohhhs," and y'all still really dig each other and are trying to rekindle the flame. Calling them up to fuck, or to arrive in a situation where fucking is likely to occur, is a fantastic way of expressing to them that you want to try again.

"But when all is said and done, all these reasons are silly when you think ultimately of why it's all right to fuck your ex. And that is—drum roll—because we as people should live life. We should strive to be the absolute best we can be, to achieve wonderful things, and grab life by the horns. Societal restraints like "don't go back to your ex" are bullshit, and if you want to fuck someone that you used to date, then go right ahead and fuck the shit out of them. Give them a great time and have a great one yourself, because you only live once and we as a society need to re-educate ourselves on the sexual balance between passion and restraint."