Do you dream of DP, but fear that it's best left to the professionals? You're not alone. DP is certainly in the realm of varsity sex acts—but with time, patience, and practice, you can be a DP star.
But you don't have to take our word for it: we've enlisted the advice of pornstar and DP aficionado Bobbi Starr, who's gamely shared her experience with the challenging—but oh so rewarding—field of double penetration. Dying to know what she had to say? Click through the gallery to read our interview.
[At left: Bobbi Starr in "Anal Cavity Search 6," courtesy of Jules Jordan Video.]
Fleshbot: When was the first time you did DP? Was it on or off camera?
Bobbi Starr: My first DP was when I was in college. It was the morning after a house party we threw and it was with my boyfriend at the time and his best friend/house mate. It wasn't very successful because his friend had a hard time keeping his penis hard—which I later found to be a common problem with guy who do not work in porn—and so I was only DP for a few minutes until we all gave up and went to eat breakfast.
My first on camera DP was with 3 really hot ladies for Kink.com. Again failure. But this time it was my fault—in a matter of speaking. I couldn't relax. It started to feel too tense. I was uncomfortable and cramping. I whimped out.
First successful DP was with Erik Everhard for Vince Vouyer for a movie called "In Through the Back Door"—I think it was #2. Erik DPed me with his penis and a massive black mushroom head dildo. It was so hot and felt so good.
The next few DP were difficult but more successful. I needed to learn how to relax. I would say it took me about 6 months of working in porn, constantly doing anal and some DPs scattered through out and I finally figured it out. You need to RELAX and give in to the sensations. After I had the epiphany I was open to a world of amazing sensation.
[At left: Bobbi Starr in "Cum Spoiled Sluts," courtesy of Jules Jordan Video.]
Was it something you'd wanted to do for a while? Or was it suggested to you by someone else?
It was something I was determined to figure out. It was most certainly a fetish of mine. Someone else did suggest it. I didn't even know it was possible until it was suggested. You don't know something exists until you are exposed to it.
How was your first time? What kind of prep did you do to get ready for it?
In my personal life I didn't prep at all.
In porn I prepped as usual. I clean out with a gallon enema bag at 6am. That cleans me out perfectly for a scene.
Did you have to consciously work at getting comfortable with DP, or did it come naturally?
After the 6 months of figuring out how to relax, I had it down.
[At left: Bobbi Starr in "Bobbi Starr & Dana DeArmond's Insatiable Voyage," courtesy of Jules Jordan Video.]
Now that you've got a bit of experience under your belt, how do you prepare for a DP scene?
Now, I would say I don't prepare other than cleaning out as usual.
Is it something you'd do off camera, or is it one of those sex acts that looks better than it feels?
Other than the one time I did it off camera I haven't tried it since. I guess I can say I get my fill by doing it on camera.
Any tips for civilians looking to include DP in their personal life?
I guess practice makes perfect and try, try again. Also, find guys who are comfortable with doing a DP.
[At left: Bobbi Starr in "No Cum Dodging Allowed 8," courtesy of Jules Jordan Video.]