"I want to feel you come," she says. "I want to feel you come." You might be tempted to just give in right then and there, to stop holding back and give in to desire--but we highly recommend that you hold off and make her wait. Not indefinitely, mind you, not forever--just long enough to make her really work for it, to amp up the tension until finally, when you do give in, it's amazingly intense for the both of you.
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