The Mysterious World of Lesbian Sex

by Coleen Singer at Sssh Porn For Women

Whether you are a man, a woman, or someone in between, you probably do not have an understanding of the ins-and-outs of lesbian sex — unless you are a lesbian, of course.

For the uninitiated, it is a world that is full of misconceptions, preconceptions and porn-fueled fantasies that seldom reflect the love and lust that two (or more) women can share. Fortunately, some lesbian women are comfortable talking about their sexuality, serving as positive role models and community ambassadors that can educate as well as entice.

In an interview for HuffPost Live hosted by Caitlyn Becker, Founder and Chief Sexy Officer of Juicy Pink Box, Jincey Lumpkin, discussed her article, “11 Things You’ve Always Wanted to Know About Lesbian Sex But Were Afraid to Ask,” providing some insights into the mysterious world of lesbian sex.

“It turns out [that] lots of people don’t quite understand lesbian sex,” Caitlyn leads, turning to Jincey to learn about the most frequent question she receives from people about lesbian sex acts: “What exactly do you do?”

“We do everything, everything that [straight people] do. We use our fingers a lot,” Jincey explains, adding, “Sure, of course there’s oral sex, but for the most part people think it is only oral sex that we do, and that’s probably the fault of porn — which is sort of what made me start my company.”

Caitlyn then brought up some of the other most-asked question that Jincey hears, including “Is one of you ‘the man?’” and “If you like women, why would you have sex with a girl who looks like a boy, why not just date a man?”

“It’s a lack of understanding about the gay community,” Jincey says, explaining that she often hears that latter question from straight guys — although some women ask as well. “The straight guys are confused, because I’m a very feminine lesbian, so there’s this misconception that I should be dating men.”

Caitlyn asked Jincey if when she hears questions like these, does she want to answer them — or is she offended at being repeatedly asked the same things.

“I personally always want to answer them, because I feel it’s really important to have these discussions,” Jincey replied. “There are plenty of people who get offended by being asked this stuff, but I always see it as an opportunity for community education.”

In her article, Jincey answers a range of other questions covering everything from “scissoring” to fisting, to a question asked by countless women around the world for time immemorial: “If I want to kiss a girl, does that make me a lesbian?” To which Jincey replies, “Something like 80 percent of straight women have lesbian fantasies, so you’re in good company.”

As part of that 80 percent, with fond memories of my boarding school days and beyond, lesbian sex has always intrigued me — and pleased me — even though I’m married and consider myself to be “straight.”

Of course, you know what they say — sometimes the only difference between a straight woman and a lesbian is a bottle of wine…

About Coleen Singer:
Coleen Singer is a writer, photographer, film editor and all-around geeky gal at Sssh.com (@ssshforwomen), where she often waxes eloquent about Female Friendly Porn, sex, pleasure products, censorship, the literary and pandering evils of Fifty Shades of Grey and other topics not likely to be found on the Pulitzer Prize shortlist. She is also the editor and curator of EroticScribes.com. When she is not doing all of the above, Singer is an amateur stock-car racer and enjoys modifying vintage 1970s cars for the racetrack. Oh, she also likes porn.

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