Twenty Questions with Porn Star Simone Sonay

Simone Sonay Is Filthy and Gorgeous in Mike Adriano/Evil Angel's "Bangin' Assholes"

Simone Sonay is not only one slammin', dirty, committed performer, but she is also the talent coordinator for Kink. That means that she has her hands on every bit of the porn you love over there and that is hella, hella cool. I love how much she loves the sexual life adventure that she is on and she is fun as fuck to watch. Here are her answers to twenty questions about her life and career so far, answered in an email interview: 

What kind of girl were you back in high school? Who did you hang out with and date?

"I was not one of the “popular kids,” that’s for sure. I had a thing for older boys, so none of my high school sweethearts were actually still in high school. I hung out with the other “not popular” kids and outside of school, and had many fun adventures. Parties, overnight road trips, camping with not much more than beer, a bikini and a blanket … In hindsight, I wish I’d have participated in some of the school events (homecoming week, dances, rallies, etc.) but I didn’t fit in with the sports/cheerleader crowd. Funny how I turned into such a soccer mom, moto mom, cheer mom as an adult, huh?"

Were you a porn fan before you got into the industry? Who were your favorite porn stars/favorite porn movies?

"I have enjoyed interracial gangbang movies for as long as I can remember. I fantasized about working with men like Rocco Siffredi, Lex Steele ... I never thought that I’d be able to say I’d actually banged them myself! There is still one gentleman who is on my “to-do” list that I haven’t had the pleasure of … YET, and that’s Shane Diesel!"

What/who do you want to do on-camera that you haven’t done yet?

"Is all of them an acceptable answer? There are a few sexy MILF’s in the industry that I would LOVE to play with. Being in that category myself, it’s not often that we get booked together. Kendra Lust would top that list."

Who is your favorite male performer/female performer to work with and why?

"There are so many performers that I genuinely enjoy working with! When you enjoy sex and performing, and you are partnered with a scene partner or partners who also enjoys sex and performing, it just clicks. It’s fantastic, magical, fun and very satisfying. I particularly enjoy working with other performers who are down for whatever. Then we can be as nasty, filthy, and raunchy as we want to be, and that makes for really hot scenes!!"

What do you love most about your fans and what do you enjoy most about talking to them on Twitter?

"I feel so lucky to have the fans I have, I think they’re the BEST fans in the world!! I have very few “haters,” bigots, opinionateds, negative Nelly’s, and the majority of them are super-supportive, gracious, encouraging, cheerleaders. I absolutely love knowing that I am a part of their fantasies and that they invite me into their bedroom, laptop, computer, cell phone, boardroom … to turn them on and get them off. When a couple tells me they both enjoy watching my scenes, that is one of my most favorite things to hear. How cool is that?! I LOVE threesomes!"

What’s your favorite position to get fucked in and why does it get you off?

"Depends on the size and shape of the dick. My favorite position is the one that gets me off on the dick that is inside me at the current time. ;)"

What do you think are some “must-own” DVDs for your fans?

"My favorite shoot is “Hey Mrs.S!” and it was shot for boundgangbangs.com (a Kink.com site) and is not available on DVD, but it IS available for purchase and download on Kink.com."

What do you like to do for fun?

"Outside of the obvious (because my jobs are both very fun!!), being a mom, I enjoy doing things with my kids. My secondary career in porn and the income it’s provided has enabled me, as a single mom, to do things with my kids I wouldn’t have otherwise been able to do. We take weekend trips, they were/are able to participate in sports like cheer and motocross ... which is AMAZING to support and watch them excel in! I also enjoy baking, cooking, eating, and gardening."

How did you evolve into such a hardcore performer?

"I’m not sure evolve is the right term in my case. I’ve always had extreme, hardcore fantasies ... from gangbangs to being held down and fucked with a Louisville Slugger (both of which I’ve done and thoroughly enjoyed, mind you!). For most of my younger life, I didn’t have the ability to share my 'dirty' or 'extreme' fantasies with anyone. Because of the information I was raised to believe, I thought something was wrong with me and that I was wrong or bad for the things that interested me or turned me on. It wasn’t until I was in my late 30s that I had a place to open up and really be who I am. When Kink.com and Princess Donna came into my life, I was able to let go of all that pre-programming from my upbringing and society and go for it! 'Hey Mrs.S!' was my first porn shoot, I started out as the hardcore performer you watch today. :)"

What is your favorite type of scene to do?

"I really enjoy 2 guy/1 girl scenes. I could do this every day ... DP (double penetration, a cock in my pussy and another in my ass) is and amazing feeling!! I also really like being overwhelmed with five cocks, but that is definitely a semi-annual event for me, it takes a bit to prepare for and it takes a bit to recover from. If I could have two men in my bed every day or every other day, just even for a couple hours, that would be pure bliss in my book."

What advice would you give a woman who wanted to be better at pleasing her sexual partner?

"This is a hard question to answer generally… there are sooooo many ways there can be improvement. Also, she can be a stellar partner in 99 percent of the activities she gives him and then have that one tiny little thing that could be just THAT much better ... Communication is key! ASK HIM! Then, now here’s the hit, listen to him and trust that he is giving you his honest answer. Remember, don’t allow yourself to be offended by the/his honest answer (that you asked for). Don’t get upset with him if he tells you what you thought was the BEST BJ EVER, could be just a bit better if only you rub his balls while you do it, or use more tongue, or suck a little harder, etc., for example. When you communicate honestly as a duo, the pleasure possibilities are infinite."

What do you most want to achieve in the adult industry?

"Having never set my mind to breaking into the adult industry in the first place, that was a huge (and surprising!) achievement for me. The way it happened for me was just by chance and being in the right place (in life and location) at the right time (in life and time of day). Being the New Talent Development and Recruiter for Kink.com, my main goal is to find the next mega porn stars of course! I also get quite a lot of satisfaction when someone I’ve recruited shoots their first scene and they are overjoyed from their experience! As for me personally (other than shooting a scene with Shane Diesel of course) a few of my DVD’s have received AVN nominations, I’d totally freak out if I were nominated for one myself. "

Who are your role models in porn and how/why do they inspire you?

"Kendra Lust and Ariel X are unbelievably physically fit. Their sexy bodies inspire me to continue working out and working on my body, and eating/putting healthy things into it every day. Being a parent and performer, I am also inspired by others in the industry (performers, their partners or others who work behind the scenes) who are both as well. There is this whole 'belt' in 'middle America' that seems to have very strong, not so positive, opinions about people who work in the adult industry and are also raising children, and sometimes it can be hard to combat that sort of ignorance, anger, and prejudice. I don’t usually give it too much energy, but it is there. I feel lucky to be a part of a large group of (in my opinion, healthy) people who don’t view parenting and sexuality as mutually exclusive. I recognize, though, that most have grown up with the similar, negative pre-programming and social opinions regarding sex that I had. Not everyone cares to expand beyond that or even just question it for themselves. Oh yeah! The sexy men in porn also inspire me … to drop my panties and bend over!"

What have you learned about yourself from being in porn?

"That some activities are better left to fantasy and others are fantasies that definitely should be realized. Also that I can actually take on way more dick than I’d ever given myself credit for."

What is the best mainstream movie you have seen recently?

"(I know this is going to sound like a cop-out answer, but I swear its the truth.) I’m such a non-critic when it comes to movies, I just enjoy being entertained for that 1.5-2 hours. I’m easy! I am even guilty of enjoying the same canned “boy meets girl, boy loses girl, boy wins girl back” rom-coms that are reinvented and re-fed to us over and over. That being said, one of my all time favorites is Overboard (Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell) and more recently I really liked Interstellar (Matthew McConaughey) and Age of Adaline (Blake Lively)."

How about the best porno movie? Is there someone whose movies you like to watch who is working now?

"I LOOOOOOVE a great deep throat scene! I actually had the pleasure of working with Karmen Karma and Bill Bailey the other day and got to enjoy watching her drool, slobber, gag and choke on his cock not even two inches from my face and mouth. It was such a huge turn on for me!"

Are you into toys to get yourself off alone or are you a low-tech woman?

"One word: HITACHI! Efficient, yet highly effective."

If you could fuck any celebrity, who would it be? Give us your male and female choices.

"Currently, Miley Cyrus tops my female list. As for the men …? Either Mark Wahlberg or Matthew McConaughey, but only if their partners were at least down (but preferably IN) for it as well!"

What is coming up for you?

"Being 43, I have some serious ground to cover over the next few years as a performer. I don’t see myself being on the business end of the camera past age 46 or 47 ... I recently left my agency and went back to being an independent model, I’ve been lucky enough to have the help of a wonderful PR company (@xxxstarpr on Twitter) who has been an amazing promoter and source of direction, and am considering the option of another agency. Having been so active within the industry for more than 3 years, I have made some incredible connections and friends and really, the sky is the limit! If the 1st half of my career is any indication, the 2nd half will be unbelievable!"

Is there anything you want to say to your fans here at Fleshbot?

"I’m so grateful for the career I’ve been able to make in the adult industry and I owe it all to the fans! If it weren’t for all my fans, I’d still be masturbating to my TV or computer all by myself! I am so glad you’ve enjoyed what you’ve seen so far, and I’m excited to continue getting each of you off, over and over, for many scenes to come!"

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All of the images here and the clip from Sonay's scene with Melissa May and Mike Adriano appear courtesy of Mike Adriano Media/Evil Angel.  Click right here to go watch the whole scene right now!