Five Reasons NOT to Skip Foreplay by jessica drake

jessica drake Is All For Passionate Kisses in "jessica drake's Guide to Wicked Sex: Foreplay"

Wicked Pictures contract performer/director/sexpert jessica drake's latest instructional release is "jessica drake's Guide to Wicked Sex: Foreplay." Foreplay makes any sex better, and it's easy to skip it when you have been with a partner for a while—but you really shouldn't. Here's why drake wants you to take it slow and enjoy every bit of your partner's body. 

1. Foreplay builds antici...pation. It teases and tantalizes your lover, giving him or her something to look forward to, especially if you begin from far away, sending them sexy pictures or sexting them throughout the day.

2. It's an investment—with returns. We want our partners to be enthusiastic and tuned into us. Research has shown that when you take the time to seduce and romance your partner, it's most often reciprocated—a sexy twist on the "do unto to others" rule.

3. It increases the chance of orgasm. When we are aroused, our blood flow gets going, causing everything to become engorged, more tolerant to pain, more sensitive to sensual touch. This leads to erections...wetness...(You get the picture.)

4. It's FUN. Foreplay can be all kinds of things—from sexting, stripping, massage, mutual masturbation, dry humping, tickle-fighting, whatever you're into—and it can be a fun, bonding experience for you and your lover.

5. Foreplay can also be the main event. As we redefine what we consider "sex" (hint: it's not just penis-in-vagina), we find that foreplay can be sex after all! Lots of people orgasm from foreplay, and considering that over 80 percent of women orgasm via clitoral stimulation alone, many prefer making out, heavy petting, and oral sex to actual penetration.

One of the very best things about foreplay is that it is exactly what you make it ... and rarely is it ever the same. Different people will have different likes and dislikes, and exploring each other can make for some of the best foreplay. Spoil yourself and your partner with LOTS of Foreplay. You'll be glad you did.

For more ideas on Foreplay, and to see three of the most unique sex scenes I've ever directed, check out my sex instructional, "jessica drake's Guide To Wicked Sex: Foreplay," available now from Wicked Pictures!

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