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  • #dvd

    Swingers And Ringers: "A Real Swinger's Orgy"

    It is not often that we find a porn movie that is charming, especially at such a cynical time. Private's "A Real Swinger's Orgy" makes having sex with strangers seem fun and wholesome again. More »
  • #dvd

    Do I Have To Show You Again? "Slut Wife Training 4"

    I see a title like "Slut Wife Training" and I think, "Ill-starred is the marriage in which the wife must be trained to be a slut." More »
  • #fleshflicks

    Kayden Kross And Dani Jensen Travel Back To Swing Time

    On more than one occasion, we've found ourselves daydreaming about what it would be like to live in the swinging '70s, swapping partners at one of those infamous "key parties." Dani Jensen and Kayden Kross did more than just daydream. More »
  • #sexculture

    "American Swing" Pages Through The Sexy, Seedy History Of Plato's Retreat

    Some thirty years ago, a magical place existed on the Upper West Side of New York. A place where all your sexual fantasies could be fulfilled, in one single night. A place called Plato's Retreat. More »
  • #secrets

    It's Ten O'Clock: Do You Know Where Your Coworkers Are?

    Corporate professional by day... and swing party hostess by night? Time Out New York has the confession of a woman with a six figure salary—and an impressive sex partner count to match. (timeout.com, thumbnail)
  • #hardcore

    "Wife Swap 6," Harbinger Of A Brave New World

    Some may say it's an urban legend, like high school "rainbow parties" or Tijuana donkey shows, but wife swapping is real. Take our word for it, because we—like Pink Visual—know the beautiful, liberating truth. More »
  • #todayinpredators

    Teen Seduction: Couples Still Doing It

    If I were Yakov Smirnov (and who says I'm not?) I might be tempted to say, "Those couples are always seducing teens ha ha ha!" Indeed, through ten segments of Pink Visual's almost-believable "reality" series in which porn stars pretend to be real people, it sometimes seems just about plausible that those May/July seductions actually happen.
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Get A Leg Up

    Some of us are breast lovers. Others are partial to asses. The bloggers in this week's round up of some of the sauciest writing on the 'net prefer legs, and we say more power to 'em. Long, strong and unparalleled in their ability to provide leverage during naughty activities, legs serve as the inspiration for much seductive glee to these bloggers. From whence does a leg-fetish spring, we might ask. A picture glimpsed in our youth? A movie featuring a panty-clad anti-hero? Does it matter? We say heck no. We'll just be happy to enjoy the view. More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Want

    It's time. The time of year when you can't escape the whining kids at the Super Target begging for toys, the "casual" hints your girlfriend drops about a certain shiny thing, or the surprise emails from your long-lost nephew with a link to his online wishlist. Nice, kid. Yep, people want stuff. Here at Fleshbot, we're no different (well, maybe we're a little bit, er, different) from Aunt Josie: We want some Isotoner slippers, too. It gets chilly jacking off to the best sex writing on the Internet all winter long. Today, our picks highlight the things people want in bed. From fandamnfuckingtastic masturbation to the way a big man can make a girl feel all gooey inside, these bloggers warm our hearts with their physical—not material—wants. More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Bossy

    Doesn't everyone have a Bossy McBossersonpants in his or her life? We all know the type. Maybe it's a hard-to-please boss or a friend who just can't keep opinions to himself. Or an ex-cousin-in-law who gets all up in your face. The bloggers in today's round-up of some of this week's best moments in the sex blog scene know all about demanding lovers. They've dealt with exacting expectations about where to put their legs, how to take their showers and even when they're going to give blowjobs. And if they gets too far out of line? Someone's getting taped to the coffee table. More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Extracurriculars

    College admissions boards don't consider SAT scores alone; the best schools want students whose academic achievements are matched by their extracurricular activities. The Fleshbot Sex Blog Roundup board is no different, really: while we appreciate the faithful representation of sexy vanilla action, we'd like to fill our halls of higher perversion with folks who have outstanding extracurriculars. More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Setting Goals

    Conventional wisdom touts the importance of having goals. As much as we here at Fleshbot usually scorn conventional wisdom, in this one isolated case we'd have to agree that goals are very good. We especially approve of the goals set forth by the writers in this week's round-up of some of the steamiest moments in the sex-blog scene. They lay out a plan and then carry through, whether it's for an immediately-desired fuck or for a certain number of encounters in the course of a fortnight. And for the ultimate in productive goal-setting, some even get to cross items off a long-standing bucket list. Who can argue with that kind of ambition? More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Different Drums

    There's a reason so many of us get our groove on the same way every time: We do what works. But there are those among us—including the bloggers in some of our favorite moments from the sex blog scene this week—who like to change things up. We're not talking about donning a piece of lacy frippery (though that might work too) or trying out a new flavor of lube and calling it a night. Instead, these folks do it ... well, different. They take to the woods for their romps, or taste-test cocks while blindfolded, or forgo penis-in-vagina intercourse for something entirely unique. And we applaud their ingenuity. (That is, when our hands aren't otherwise occupied.) More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Age Is Just A Number

    Their hair styles aren't the only thing we appreciate about some of the hot moms in our lives, you know: in fact, some of the hottest things we read in our perambulations around the sex blog scene every week are written by sexy people in their 30s, 40s and 50s. And it's not just hot moms who are letting loose with all their stories about learning new fucking techniques in summer camp and keeping the marital bed bumping every night—there are plenty of DILFs who get in on the action too. All of which goes to prove that not only does experience count when it comes to sex; it counts for a lot. And it also happens to be really, really hot. More »
  • #swingers

    "America Swings"; We Get To Watch

    Across America—from Mahwah, New Jersey, to Pleasonton, California—there's one thing that unites us all: a love of having sex with people who aren't our legally married spouses. Or at least that's the premise of "America Swings," a brand new book by photographer Naomi Harris that's full of dirty pictures of swingers doing the very thing they do best. You may remember Ms. Harris from her behind the scenes look at the porn industry (or from our previous mention of her current project); with our long history of, uh, appreciating her work, we're definitely looking forward to getting our hands on a copy of her latest endeavor. Want to see why we're all hot and bothered? Blackbook has a preview gallery of photos from the book accompanying their review. Who knows—you might have more in common with some of those Red State people than you thought. More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Three Is Never A Crowd

    If sex with one partner is good, then sex with two partners has to be totally awesome, right? After all, it's just simple math. Today's roundup of some of our favorite moments from the sex blog scene checks out couples who have brought in an extra warm body to enhance their fun. Why spank alone when you can spank in front of an audience, or give a solo blowjob when you can share that tasty treat with someone else? And what's better than watching two close friends share some hot-n-dirty cunnilingus? Absolutely nothing we say! (But if you're a little shy about dropping trou in front of your pals, we'll toss in a little one-on-one action to keep you happy too.) More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Talking Dirty

    Despite what some conservative types might have you believe, we believe it's our constitutional right—nay, our constitutional duty—to talk dirty during sex. Whether it's sexy, filthy or downright silly—has anyone not mixed up the names of body parts or lovers in the throes of passion at some point?—we think the aural element is something that makes fucking that much more hot. And apparently the bloggers in today's roundup of some of the mosty potty-mouth'd moments in the sex blog scene agree: they describe, they cajole, they inflame and they tease, all for the purpose of encouraging their partners. Is it so wrong that we want to listen in? More »
  • #video

    Sexploitation Clip Of The Week: "Kiss Me Quick"

    Unlike most sexploitation films, this one is not meant to scare you. Unless you find alien fat guys coming down to Earth with no knowledge of women and their sexual charms scary. If that's the case, then there is a solution—an insane Frankenstein-esque doctor who turns women into horny sexual freaks! Oh, and also re-animates the dead, like the original Dr. Frankenstein. But that's just a side project to the more important task of making the freak bots. Even scientists have to have priorities, you know.

    · "Kiss Me Quick!" (1964) (imdb.com) More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: What Men Do

    It used to be that the sex blogging world was mostly made up of women who delighted in detailing their naughty exploits to the rest of the world as much as we delighted in reading them. But nature always seeks balance, and happy to see that the number of sex bloggers who also happen to be men is rising—just as much as their well-documented trouser tents. Today's roundup of some of our favorite moments from the sex blog scene features some of the sexiest boy bloggers we know; boys whose writing makes everyone want to hop in their cars and ride along with them. More »
  • #sexisdangerous

    We've heard of some bad group sex experiences, but they very rarely end with one of the participants getting stabbed with a steak knife and sent to the hospital. Seriously, that almost never happens. Usually. Not every time, anyway. (madison.com)
  • #swingers

    Sexploitation Clip Of The Week: My My My ... "Delilah"

    We've always loved that old Tom Jones song about his woman who gone and done him wrong, but we never really realized until now that it would make for an excellent sexploitation plot. Of course, this "Deliliah" is about swingers who gladly cheat on each other with anyone they can find, and it doesn't appear that any triflin' lovers get stabbed in the end. Still, don't you think this movie would be even better with a little T.J. on the soundtrack? Wouldn't every movie?

    · "Delilah" (1969) (imdb.com) More »
  • #swingers

    A Las Vegas TV reporter was fired from his job because he and his girlfriend went on Craigslist looking for another dude to join them in the bedroom. Wait a second, it's Las Vegas—isn't that what you usually have to do to get the job? (lvrj.com; also seen @ soupcans.blogspot.com)
  • #swingers

    OK, we guess it's official: Toronto really is the swingers capital of the world! But not if the city council has anything to say about it. See, it's a really diverse and cultured city ... as long as you don't upset the tourists with all that sexin'. (canoe.ca)
  • #video

    Sexploitation Clip Of The Week: "Hot Erotic Dreams"

    This week's clip forgoes the standard formula involving an outraged narrator warning you to avert your eyes from (and also definitely go and watch) a sordid tale of sex fiends throwing their lives away for the sake of cheap thrills. In fact, it doesn't even pretend that there's a story to be told at all. This trailer simply levels with you: you want to see crazy swingers having sex under a background of smooth jazz, and that's exactly what you're going to get. It's refreshing, even if that kind of honestly isn't nearly as .... shocking! More »
  • #sexploitation

    Sexploitation Clip Of The Week: "Unholy Matrimony"

    What happens when you mix S-E-X with LSD? Whatever it is, you probably won't remember it after you come down, but this movie sure makes it sounds like F-U-N. Well, except for the blackmail. Always with the blackmail. Can't anyone have a drug-fueled suburban orgy without some tough guy in a cowboy hat shaking you down for a few thousand dollars? No wonder everyone has to take so much LSD before they get freaky. More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Three Is The Magic Number

    When something in your life needs fixing, sometimes having a spare handy can be just the thing. In today's roundup of some of our favorite moments from the sex blog scene, we peek in on pairs who have opened their bedrooms to friends, neighbors and random passers-by. You know how it is: four hands simply aren't enough for all the clit-rubbing, nipple-pinching, cock-sucking action you can handle ... and that doesn't even take into account what's necessary for support. Really, it's surprising that anyone even has plain old one-on-one sex anymore! More »
  • #swingers

    "America Swings": We Like To Share

    Hey, America. Do you like to swing? Of course you do—because everyone knows that even though we like to pretend we're all prim and proper, our nation is really just one big wife-swapping freak fest! Well, one photographer got tired of hearing about it and decided to prove it: Naomi Harris, who took a behind the scenes look at the porn industry a couple of years ago, headed out into the vast unknown wilderness of that places called "Middle America" (you know, that big empty spot between the two oceans) and came back with a new book of photographs documenting average folks who lead somewhat non-average sex lives. She even went so far as to hang out in the nude with her subjects in order to get pictures of these wildcats in their natural habitat! The book will be released by Taschen in the fall, which means we may have to wait a few months before finding out the answer to this question: if this country is filled with an army of hidden swingers, then how come nobody is watching "Swingtown"? (Oh, right ... they're probably too busy with that other stuff.) More »
  • #orgy

    Shiny Happy People Having Sex: Pink Visual's "Orgy Sex Parties 4"

    When Pink Visual's "Orgy Sex Parties" arrived in a flood of similar looking candy-colored DVD cases today at Fleshbot South, we were immediately struck by its curiously tender cover photo. But then this is an orgy movie, not a gangbang movie, and we all know that orgies are supposed to be tender. Or at least friendly! More »
  • #television

    "Swingtown": Primetime Television Now Overrun With Sexy Bikini-Clad Swingers

    Have you watched the "hit" new show "Swingtown"? It's about how everyone in the 1970s used to do nothing but fuck each other on shag carpeting (and not about the music our grandparents used to listen to during WW2 as we were previously led to believe). Groovy! We didn't see it because we were too busy hooking up a disco ball to our lava lamp, but if the video below is to be trusted, the only costumes available to female members were bikinis. Don't worry though: since it airs on CBS, you can always call your grandmother to see what you missed since she was probably tuned in. If she wasn't listening to big band music at the time, that is. More »
  • #greatmomentsinsex

    A Swinging Good Time At The Sandstone Retreat: Another Look Back

    Being a nudist is nothing new. And from what we can tell, taking it off at the Sandstone Retreat was a lot more interesting than all these nakations we've been hearing about lately. VH1 takes a penetrating look at what it was like to get naked—and get busy—with friends, neighbors, and perfect strangers back in the good old days of the groovy sexual revolution. We've got more hot historical action below, from VH1's Rock Doc "Sex: The Revolution," a four part series premiering this Monday. What this doc has to do with rock escapes us, but we can never get enough video of swingers from the '70s. Just a chance to see all that hair makes it worth a look. More »
  • #sexclubs

    Family Fun At The Power Exchange

    We're glad that someone tipped us off to this great video about San Francisco's inimitable Power Exchange, a "family friendly sex club" even a mother could love—especially if she's into painting cow motifs on the walls of your bondage den. Looks like just the place to take our own family the next time they visit the City By The Bay! (On second thought ... maybe we'll just stick with Fisherman's Wharf.) More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Girls On Top

    We're always up for some femdom swinging, greedy-girl phone sex or butch cock sucking ... but really, who isn't? Today's round up of some of the best writing from the sex blog scene is all about the girls (er, we mean women): these ladies tease, deny, and make outrageous demands on their partners. (Not that anyone much minds.) Don't worry, they're perfectly generous to their partners, both male and female. They just need to come first, understand? More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Mister Right Now

    Prince Charming may be out there somewhere, but until he shows up there are plenty of frogs to kiss. In this week's once upon a time, we follow the crumbs left by some of our favorite sex bloggers as they recount their used-to-bes, never-weres, and shouldn't-evers. Consequences aree damned as they give in to passion with the chauffeur or screw in the boy's locker room, and an occasional lover may prove more trouble than he's worth. Then there's the online hookup who misrepresented himself ... but he's there, you're there, and who else needs to know about it anyway? More »
  • #movies

    Sexploitation Clip Of The Week: "Sextet"

    In this week's sexploitation adventure, you get not one, but six incredible films! In what other moviegoing experience could you find outer space visitors, magic tricks, rape and revenge, swinging orgies, reincarnated Indians ghosts, belly dancing, sex dolls, and full frontal male nudity ... all in one convenient package? Plus, the trailer has a kick-ass theme song at the end that will leave you wondering who you need to give $12 to in order to see this in a theater right now! It's so sexy and shocking, you'll want to see it six times! (But probably not in one night, unless you're some kind of weird sex maniac or something.) More »
  • #swingers

    Apparently, some people use Flickr not just to share photos ... but to try to get laid too! (Note, however, that this seems to work only if you are a woman, or at least say you are.) And here we were thinking that all those people who keep inviting us to trade pictures of our ex-girlfriends just wanted to, like, critique our exposure or something! (blogto.com)
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Do The Math

    It may take two to tango, but in today's roundup of some our favorite moments from the sex blog scene we find the steps get a lot more interesting when you have more partners to dance with: add one or two others to the mix, and suddenly you've got more moves than Astaire. (Though as one stripper laments, adding sixty is just too much work.) Take in a Parisian orgy, or jet off to warmer climes to try the clams ... you may see your friend spank his wife, or your own wife might invite you to watch her with her new boyfriend. More »
  • #sex20

    Boobik Makes Writing On Bathroom Walls Obsolete

    You won't see the T-word mentioned anywhere on the site, but anyone who's familiar with the Twitter concept will understand what Boobik is all about: it's a service that allows you to share all your juicy "short experiences, thoughts and fantasies" by posting short text messages along with photos and video via IM, text message, or regular old fashioned emai. (Unlike Twitter, however, you're encouraged to tell folks you're playing with yourself under your desk at the very moment you're writing your message without having to worry that people are going to think you're a total perv.) Of course, a service like this is pretty much only as good as the community that grows around it, and so far things seem kind of sparse. Nonetheless, if you're consumed with the urge to let a fellow lonely masturbator in the UK that you just rubbed one out to some old Melissa Joan Hart photos you might want to give it a try. (Though if you are in fact masturbating to old Melissa Joan Hart photos, maybe you should keep that information to yourself instead of sharing it — no matter how new and exciting the technology might be.) More »
  • #sexblogs

    Sex Blog Roundup: Chill Chasers

    It's a new year, but what have you done with it? We know all about that cigarette you snuck last weekend during your boozy bender, and the bag of Doritos you scarfed down while watching "The Biggest Loser": it seems like all your resolutions were made to be broken, and now the credit card bills are starting to roll in. It's enough to make you want to crawl under the covers until spring. This week's roundup of some of our favorite moments from the sex blog scene takes a look at folks who decide to break free of their winter rut. From a champagne-drizzled pussy to impromptu threesomes and uninvited voyeurs, these ladies and gents know that sometimes all you need is a taste of the unexpected to get your juices warm. More »
  • #sexculture

    Kasidie: For Swingers, By Swingers (With Swings Included)

    Are you a swinger? Or do you just wish you were, but aren't sure if you've got the gumption to fool around with strangers? Then maybe you should check out a new lifestyle magazine that's all about the lifestyle. Kasidie is a new online mag written by swingers for swingers and provides a sexy new outlet for those folks who love to travel, meet new people, and fuck as many of them as possible. They've got advice on resorts, finding the right parties, protecting your identity, and buying sex toys. And if you still don't think you're up for a romp after reading all that advice ... well, they've got plenty of high quality pics of hot people who are. Unlike most swinger resorts, lurking here is just fine. Just remember: you don't need an actual sex swing to be a swinger, but it sure helps. More »
  • #amateur

    Amateur Thumblog Starts Off The New Year Right

    If your new year's resolutions involve spanking it to less overproduced studio material and more quality amateur stuff (and whose doesn't?), allow us to help make things easier for you by directing your attention to this thumblog. Despite its title, it's not so much a protest against the nefarious policies of the Recording Industry Association of America than a lovingly curated tribute to the wide and wonderful world of homemade smut, from sexy swingers to blowjob-hungry grannies and tiny-titted webcam gals and just about everything in between. In fact, it's even inspired us to start making our own dirty home videos to share with all of you in the new year. (Whether or not you'll want to watch them, though, is a different story, But at least our heart's in the right place.) More »