It's all to benefit Audacia Ray's worthy Sex Work 101 public education project, and for a (very) limited time you can even sponsor one of the days on the calendar so that everyone who buys a copy will know when to celebrate your birthday or the anniversary of the first time you fapped it to an episode of "Wonder Woman". If you're hoping for full-on naked cheesecake action, you might still want to look elsewhere since we have it on excellent authority that photographer Stacie Joy will be shooting her subjects in sexy burlesque-style poses only. Which is just as well, because sometimes looking at some of our bestest friends and colleagues fully naked can get a little embarassing.

• New York City Sexblogegrs 2009 Calendar (sexbloggercalendar.wordpress.com)
• Sex Work 101 (sexwork101.com)
• Thumbnail superstars: Rachel Kramer Bussel and Twanna A. Hines
• Photo by Stacie Joy (flickr.com/photos/editrixie)

Setting aside the inherent irony of using porn stars to educate about monogamy (because... well, yeah), "Seeking Monogamy Without Monotony" is a great movie. Like "Toying With Pleasure," it manages to strike just the right balance between education and porn: Waxman's lectures are lighthearted and fun, offering up solid information without interfering with the sex scenes used to illustrate the lessons. On occasion, however, porn wins out. The "role playing" scene between Nat Turnher and Jayna Oso spends about thirty seconds on the Jayna-as-maid plotline before devolving into a straight up fuckfest - though, come to think of it, that's probably how most attempts at role playing pan out.

Of the three scenes, we were most into the anal scene featuring Lexi Bardot and Benjamin Brat. A real life couple, Lexi and Ben have great chemistry that comes through in the scene and makes it a whole lot hotter — and it doesn't hurt that they seem to know quite a bit about making anal sex hot for everyone. The one disappointment? Though Jamye spends a great deal of time discussing finding the prostate and anal pleasure for men, Lexi is the only one whose ass gets pleasured. What happened to equal opportunity?

We often get asked to recommend good porn for couples and porn for women, and from what we've seen so far the "Personal Touch" series is an excellent addition to the list. We're definitely looking forward to seeing part three.

· Order: "Personal Touch Vol. 2: Seeking Monogamy Without Monotony" (Adult DVD Empire)
· Adam & Eve (adamandeve.com)
· Jamye Waxman (jamyewaxman.com)