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... Now, where's that porn version of Get Smart when I need it, & not just when I want to be freaked out by how much the original Maxwell Smart, his pornic alter-ego, & Steve Carell look the same?

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Obviously, someone who's making porn knows exactly what the, uh, consumer reaction is--but there's a difference between being aware that an abstract someone is jacking off to you and having a fan bring you into their personal sexual experience by talking about their masturbation habits.

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@IAO6: I've only been on one side of the computer screen, but I think you don't say it because it's in bad taste, not because it's necessarily rude or mean. Sure, most nice people are going to just brush it off and treat it as a compliment, but the truth is that most people don't actually want to hear it. Most of the time, simply saying "I like/love your work" would easily suffice, and without the whole creepy/disgusting factor.

As far as the other statements, I agree with them. Between the backhanded compliments(10), stupid questions/statements (1,3,4), rude comments(2,8,9), and passive-aggressive putdowns(6), every single one of those things is something you probably shouldn't say. #7 is more advice than an actual "don't say that to me" thing, and most people would say that it is good advice. The little blurb after each comment comes off more smart-ass than bitch to me, and smart-ass seems to be what sells on the internet.

In the end, I just follow a general rule of thumb that if I wouldn't say it to an average person, I wouldn't say it to a porn actress, or anyone else in entertainment for that matter. So if you wouldn't tell a random attractive co-worker that you masturbated to them, you shouldn't say it to a porn star either.

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Just because she is a pornstar doesn't automatically degrade her to the point that you should feel the need to say every crude thing that passes through your head.

While some pornstars might find it thrilling to hear of your solo-sexploits, I imagine most (like any women) would probably find it a bit offputting.

Common sense would dictate that you establish a rapport first and then open up if it feels appropriate.

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At the end of the day, porn is a job. It's both entertainment and service industry, so you have to wear two hats, akin to politicians.

I used to work at Ben n Jerry's in Chelsea before it turned into a Pinkberry or whatever it is now. If someone came up to me and recognized me from scooping their "Coffee Coffee Bzz Bzz Bzz" and said they really enjoyed it, that's cool. If they came up and said the ice cream gave them the runs and then went into a hyper-literary description of every ebb and hue, that's not cool. And really awkward, actually.

The issue is being how graphic it is. To some people it's semantics, but semantics run how human beings perceive each other. If a fan went up to Stormy and rambled about how often he would fuck her Doc Johnson pussy mold and etc and went into all these private, Vivid details, that would be a bit much. That's something that'd best be left to a fan letter and not in front of someone who is, arguably, a working professional.

But that's one of a few extreme examples. Stormy kind of just shat on the idea of a fan simply saying "I masturbate to you a lot". Which is honestly a pretty harmless thing to say to someone who's job is to make you masturbate to them (Not ruling out that porn can be enjoyed simply as entertainment and not a sexual aid. There's lots of entertaining and funny porn).

It just comes off to me as a disheartening snootiness. There are plenty of women in the industry who seem to be professionals at humoring fans who make statements like this, which is wholly appropriate where it occurs, a convention setting. And I feel that admission is perfectly workplace friendly.

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That too.

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Sorry for the derailment!

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