<![CDATA[Comments from hortense]]> <![CDATA[Comments from hortense]]> <![CDATA[hortense commented on Remember When Your <i>Dad</i> Embarrassed <i>You</i>?]]> Moe, this is really great.

It took me about 25 years to look at my parents not as my parents, but as fellow human beings with flaws and motivations and strengths and weaknesses. I love them more now than I ever have.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @Cry4Hemp: You know what? It's just as catty to call people "mean girls" as it is to participate in mean girl behavior. This shit has got to stop. It helps no one and hurts everyone.

If someone's behavior is bothering you, send it to me. Be above it. Set an example otherwise.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @CreoleSugar: I know, but there is a comments section on that blog as well, and it is probably best to respond to One D at a Time posts on the appropriate forum.

Again, we're working with 900+ comments here. As a moderator, you have to understand that it's my job to keep the thread as focused as possible. I'm just trying to keep the discussion centered around the Thinking and Drinking event.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @Catty Is Cumbersome: These kinds of comments aren't really necessary, you guys. You can disagree with what she said, but to attack her physical appearance is way, way out of line.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @CreoleSugar: I'm going to ask that we leave that to SM's blog. If you want to discuss it, that's probably the place to do so.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Selma Blair Is A Real Thriller]]> @BAngieB: @stacyinbean: @Trashtastic: Honestly, crew, I can't deal with this today. There are clearly bigger issues to be addressed. You've all been around long enough to know the speech I'd type here anyway. Let's just try to get along, and if we can't get along, let's just ignore the people we can't get along with and concentrate on writing something funny. Please? Today has been rough enough as it is.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Ladies' Night]]> Someone have a drink for me, please. A Shirley Temple Black, even.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on "I wish that the numbers were]]> @RetroChristal: The Decline series is fantastic. Great recommendation.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @spikenard: We have commenters in high school, and we have commenters in their 50's. Women (and men) of all ages read the site.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on MagHag]]> That's a terrible, terrible cover.

However, I do want the sweater she's wearing.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @Charlotte Corday: Ok, that's really not necessary.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @ronaldpagan: Again, this commenter has been taken care of.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @mermaidshoes: Let's stay on topic please. This isn't about Emily Gould. This is about Moe and Tracie. Thanks.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @circlelinelovah: @d.ham: It's been taken care of.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @Charlotte Corday: No, it isn't. The bannings are not up for discussion. If anyone has an issue with them, it's best discussed via email. I will not have this thread go off the rails into a completely different topic.

This is a thread to discuss Thinking & Drinking. Let's stick to that, please.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @Charlotte Corday: This is not really the proper forum to talk about fellow commenters and bannings and the like. That is best left to PM's. Let's stick to the topic at hand, please.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> Look: I know that people are angry, hurt, and upset. But again, I ask that this thread not devolve in to pure snark and rage. Let's try to discuss this without allowing the thread to turn into another 700+ comments of character attacks and zingers, please.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Stranger Than Fiction: Lit Fest Inspires Too Much Fashion Creativity]]> And for the record, Sadie, I think you are doing an excellent job, and I know for a fact that many, many commenters agree with me.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Stranger Than Fiction: Lit Fest Inspires Too Much Fashion Creativity]]> @tatas: Goodbye!

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @TheGuvnah: @stacyinbean: Please, please, please do not turn this into a commenter vs. commenter thread. Let's stick to the discussion at hand. PLEASE.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @shewar: Please keep in mind that we aren't always aware of what is taking place behind the scenes. Anna is dealing with the situation in the manner she feels is best for the site and her staffers right now. Let's try to respect her decision and concentrate on the discussion taking place right now. Anna loves this site and cares very deeply about what you all have to say- even though it may be hard for some of you to understand how this is being approached, please try to respect the decisions being made regarding this issue right now.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @ronaldpagan: I'm going to ask again that we stay on topic. This is not about bannings and such. There is a discussion going on here about what happened on the show. If you don't wish to participate in the discussion taking place, it might be best to take your discussion to private messaging or emails.

Thanks.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> @BowlingForDollars: Let's not go there, okay? Let's try to discuss Thinking & Drinking instead.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Thoughts About Thinking & Drinking]]> I would like to remind everyone that this is an opportunity for discussion- let's try to discuss this in a civil manner, please.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Penelope Cruz Reignites The Bettie Page Hairdo Trend With One Quiet Photo-Op]]> @DinaRonson: Well, the hair is very Audrey. The outfit is very Hortense's Mom in her go-to summer outfit.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Penelope Cruz Reignites The Bettie Page Hairdo Trend With One Quiet Photo-Op]]> Very Audrey Hepburn, no?

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Breaking Breakup News: Drew Barrymore & Justin Long; Kate Moss & Jamie Hince]]> @Khrushchev: You are correct- it's "Believe".

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Breaking Breakup News: Drew Barrymore & Justin Long; Kate Moss & Jamie Hince]]> @ronaldpagan: Can we drop that for at least ONE post, please? We'll get there when we get there, know what I mean? Jacking every post about it is getting quite tiresome.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Breaking Breakup News: Drew Barrymore & Justin Long; Kate Moss & Jamie Hince]]> @anAmericanInLondon: @Dodai: Cher songs are almost impossible to get out of your head for some reason. I heard "Turn Back Time" at the dentist a few weeks ago and I AM STILL SINGING IT.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Breaking Breakup News: Drew Barrymore & Justin Long; Kate Moss & Jamie Hince]]> How can anyone beat You, Me and Dupre? How?

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Dudes Today: The Emotional Conquistador Is The New Sexual Conquistador]]> @Megan Carpentier: Thank you!

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Dudes Today: The Emotional Conquistador Is The New Sexual Conquistador]]> @PilgrimSoul: Why do you think my avatar carries an umbrella all the time? One must always be prepared for the shitstorm.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Dudes Today: The Emotional Conquistador Is The New Sexual Conquistador]]> @ronaldpagan: No, I understand that, but I just want the tone of this thread to go from completely vitriolic to civil, you know what I mean? It is one thing to have a discussion and quite another for a complete shitstorm to break out.

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Dudes Today: The Emotional Conquistador Is The New Sexual Conquistador]]> Hello, doves-

This thread has clearly gone off the rails, but I wanted to remind everyone to please be considerate of other commenters when posting- you don't have to like everyone who posts, but I ask that you treat fellow commenters respectfully. It is perfectly acceptable to argue and disagree- but let's try to be civil, please.

It is clear that there are questions that many of you want answered, and also fairly evident that those questions won't be answered in this thread. I strongly suggest that you email the editors with any questions/concerns regarding the editorial content of the site- they're more likely to see your questions that way.

Thank you!

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Dudes Today: The Emotional Conquistador Is The New Sexual Conquistador]]> @pfft: Hi pfft- Anna is aware of the situation. If you'd like to discuss it with her, it's best to email her directly. The link to her email address is on the side of the page, under "Jezebel Team".

Thanks!

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Reader Roundup]]> For everyone concerned about the Great Elephant of 2008: I know you all want to talk about it, but there isn't really a proper forum to do so at this point, so until that happens, I ask that you consider emailing the editors with your thoughts and concerns. They are always open to hearing what you have to say.

Thank you!

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Dudes Today: The Emotional Conquistador Is The New Sexual Conquistador]]> @RollsRoyceRevenge: Oh no, I see where you're coming from. At first I read your post like a straight person had written it, claiming that being gay was so much easier because of no weddings, children, commitment, etc, which struck me as really ignorant and weird. But thank you for clarifying.

The internet makes it hard to understand where people are coming from sometimes, know what I mean?

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<![CDATA[hortense commented on Dudes Today: The Emotional Conquistador Is The New Sexual Conquistador]]> @BeckySharper: I can't speak for the editors regarding responses and the like, but emails are probably the best way to express your feelings/concerns right now. They are always open to listening to what the readers have to say.

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